Wani yarinya mai ban sha'awa yana jin kamar haka: "Kun saya kaya ku? Ba daidai ba ne a gare ku, amma idan na sami irin kuɗin, zan saya mafi kyawun kuɗi. Kishi a dawo yana karɓar maganin mummunan aiki, mutum a lokaci guda yana jin dadi, rashin jin dadi kuma bai fahimci dalilin da yasa kalmominta game da sayen jaka ba, ya haifar da irin wannan fashewa.
Haɗari yana da baki da fari, masu ilimin psychology sun gano abin da aka ba da hormones a lokaci ɗaya, lokacin da motsin zuciyarmu ya bayyana, da kuma abin da sakamakon da suka samu, yadda suke shafi jihar lafiya. Amma har yanzu ba wanda ya san yadda zai dace da amsa irin wannan abu. Har ila yau, mun sake kanmu a halin da muke ciki, idan muka kishi, ko kishi, kuma mun fahimci cewa duk wannan kishi ne.
Kishi ga aboki, wannan abin sha'awa ne, ba ta iya bayyana shi, dole ne kowa ya yarda da shi, amma babu wani dalili. Sabili da haka, idan kun ji kishi a lokaci na gaba, sai ku ce: "Na gode da yabo," saboda haka ta nuna sha'awa, albeit asiri.
An haifi mace a hankali cewa daya daga cikin karfi mai karfi shine kishi da budurwa. Ba tare da su ba zan rasa kilo 10. Zan je gidan abinci tare da sabon aboki. Zan saya kaina sabon jaka, bari in kishi cewa ina da shi 101-I. Muna yin wannan duka a hankali, muna yin waɗannan abubuwa, saboda haka muna jin kishi, muna so su kaddamar da wadannan jihohi. Kuma sai mu yi mamakin dalilin da yasa suke kishin mu.
Bari mu yi tunanin dan lokaci cewa babu kishi a cikin duniya, babu wanda ya kwatanta kowa da komai. Babu wanda yanzu zai lura cewa ka rasa kilo 10, babu wanda zai lura da sabon jaka, ba wanda zai tambayi yadda kake amfani da maraice a gidan abinci tare da masaniyarka. Yana da wani yanayi mai ban mamaki, har ma da wuya a yi tunanin abin da duniya za ta zama ba tare da wannan kishi ba.
Mutum na iya ƙaddara daga wannan halin da ake ciki kawai muna bukatar kishi, cewa kishiyar budurwa ita ce babbar hanyar cigaba. Rayuwarmu za ta kasance mai banƙyama da launin toka, ba za a sami wuri don sha'awar da farin ciki ba, idan babu wata kishi a duniya - wannan sha'awar ya bambanta da wasu, da kuma girman kai.
Hari ne sigina a jikin mutum, wanda shine yanayin da yake buƙatar bunkasa wasu dabi'u, saboda idan ta je gidan abinci, ta iya fahimta, saya abu, kuma zan iya yin hakan. Idan kai mutum ne kuma ka yi ƙoƙarin samar da wasu halaye na musamman, to, kishi yana da jin dadi a gare ka. Idan ka jawo kishi, to sai ka taimaka wajen ci gaban mutum. Kuna buƙatar bi da komai tare da fahimta, domin domin a warkar da ku ya zama dole don haɗiye kwayoyi masu haɗari.
Hari na budurwa ita ce babban cigaban ci gaba, wani bangare na abuta, wanda ba zai iya yin ba tare da shi ba. Lokacin da ka ga cewa budurwarka ta kishi da kai, ta kawai bukatar taimakawa wajen bunkasa halaye. Idan kai masoyi ne, raba da magana game da yadda kake da dangantaka tare da kishi da kuma kira ta ta nuna maka wannan kishi a kowane lokaci. Saboda haka, zai kasance a gare ku ƙarin tabbacin cewa kun sami wani abu a rayuwa.