Kowane yarinya yana da asarar budurcin ta hanyarta. Ga wani, wannan tsari ne mai raɗaɗi, kuma ga wasu - sosai dadi: duk ya dogara ne da halaye na jiki. Kowane budurwa ya kamata ya kasance a shirye don wani zaɓi, kada ka dogara ga dukan mutumin, saboda sau da yawa wakilan mawuyacin jima'i sun san ko da yadda yarinya ta rasa rashin laifi.
Ta yaya asarar budurwa ta faru?
Asarar budurwa, daga ra'ayi na physiology, ya kamata ya faru a shekaru 17 zuwa 20. Gynecologists lura cewa ba kawai marasa lafiya, amma kuma matasa (12-14 years old), da kuma mata a cikin girma (35-40 years old) suna juya zuwa matsaloli da suka shafi deprivation na budurwa. Duk da cewa shekarunta, asarar budurwa ga yarinya wani lokaci ne mai matukar muhimmanci, kuma yana bukatar yin shiri mai kyau tare da abokan tarayya. Ma'aurata biyu don yin jima'i a karo na farko, yana da mahimmanci a tuna cewa jikin yarinyar zai iya bambanta da jima'i ta farko. Yarinyar yarinya wanda ya yanke shawarar rasa budurcinta dole ne ya san cewa jikin jikinsa bai riga ya shirya don irin wannan canje-canje mai tsanani, ba tare da halin kirki ba. Yin jima'i a irin wannan shekarun yana haifar da kullin zuwa motsi na hormonal, sakin estradiol, ci gaba da cigaban ci gaban kwayoyin halitta da mammary gland.
Ga bayanin kula: jin zafi a lokacin da ake karewa (asarar budurwa) an lalacewa saboda rashin shiri don yin jima'i - ba a jin dadi ba, kuma yawancin man fetur bai kasance a cikin farji ba.
Shin yana da matukar wahala don rasa budurcinku?
A wasu lokuta, budurwa bazai jin zafi lokacin shigar da azzakari cikin farji. Wannan shi ne saboda gaskiyar cewa hymen yana da babban nau'i, yana iya fadada ba tare da lalacewa ba. Rashin ƙarancin budurwa za a iya haɗuwa da bayyanar cututtuka mai tsanani da yawan ɓoyewar jini. Wadannan yanayi sun fi dacewa a tsakanin budurwai a kowane zamani kuma suna nuna cewa yaduwa ya lalace a lokacin shiga cikin farji na jikin jima'i. Dalilin ciwo mai tsanani da kuma yawan jinin jini tare da asarar budurwa shine haifar da fasaha da hawaye a cikin farji, yin jima'i na farko da bai dace ba ga mace, har ma a cikin bikin auren da ake dadewa. A wasu lokuta, yana zama mai zafi idan haɗin abokin tarayya yafi kaifi ko tashin hankali. Saboda wannan dalili, kada ku yi rudu a lokacin jima'i na fari, kuma ku yi duk abin da ya fi dacewa da tausayi. Bayanan jima'i na gaba ba zai kawo irin wannan sanarwa ba.
Alamar asarar budurwa
Budurwa, dangane da jima'i da kuma shekaru, yana da alamun bayyanar. Mutane ba su da shaida ta jiki game da asarar rashin laifi, tun da ba a samar da fina-finai ko ƙwayoyin tsoka ta hanyar ilimin lissafi ba. A cikin mata, halin da ake ciki ya koma. Babban alama na ɓatawar budurwa shine rupture na hymen, wanda yake shi ne fim kuma yana kunshe da ciwon daji, ƙananan jini. Ƙara yawan zub da jini zai iya faruwa saboda rashin daidaituwa na gabobin jima'i na abokan tarayya (ƙananan farji da ƙananan azzakari), wanda zai haifar da mummunar lalacewar mucosa.
Yadda za a rasa budurcinka ba tare da ciwo ba?
Domin yin jima'i na farko da kuma rage rashin jin zafi, yana da muhimmanci a tuna da wasu dokoki. Samun budurwa ga mutane da yawa an dauke shi wani tsari mara kyau, haifar da tsoro har ma da tsoro. Dole ne mutum ya riga ya fara shirya abokin tarayya don yin jima'i, ya kawo ta a cikin tashin hankali. A cikin akwati, yanayin lubrication na jiki a cikin farji ba zai isa ba, wanda zai haifar da zafi a lokacin yin jima'i. Yana da mahimmanci cewa akwai cikakkiyar amincewa ta tsakanin abokan tarayya. Sai kawai a wannan yanayin yarinyar za ta iya kwantar da hankali. Duk wani motsi na mutum ya kasance mai santsi kuma mai kyau, amma ba jinkirin ba. Kuna iya sanya matashin kai a karkashin ƙwaƙwalwarka, matashin kai ko matashi don sauƙi rashin tausayi.
Yana da muhimmanci a tuna cewa babu wanda zai iya bayar da shawarwari daidai game da jima'i na fari: kawai abokan hulɗa da kansu sun san abin da zai fi kyau a gare su. Sabili da haka, ya kamata ku saurari jininku da sha'awa.