Sun ce mafarkin farko da mace mai ciki ta yi game da jaririnta na gaba shine annabci. Ban san yadda wannan gaskiya yake ba, amma kwana biyu kafin farkon duban dan tayi, Ina da irin wannan mafarki. Na zo cikin duban dan tayi, kuma matata-duban dan tayi ta ce: "Kamar yarinya". Kuma me kake tsammani, ina tafiya kwanaki biyu bayan duban dan tayi, mace tana karuwa, ko da yake na san kashi dari bisa dari wanda ake yin sauti da maza a nan. Kuma ta, ta jagoranci ta ciki tare da na'urar, ta ce kalma a kalma, cewa na yi mafarki: "Kamar dai yarinya!". Kodayake sautin farko ba zai yiwu a yi la'akari da jima'i na jariri ba, amma an haifi ɗana! Gaba ɗaya, mai haske, mafarki masu kyau ga mata masu ciki suna iya bayyanawa. Lokacin da mace ta kasance a matsayinta, ta yi tunani akai akai. Game da abin da ya, jaririn ta gaba. Yaya tunaninsa a can, yadda yake girma, ya taso. Tana tunani a gaba, a kula da jaririn, sayen cin abinci, game da yadda rayuwa zai canza bayan haihuwar jariri. Sabili da haka, sau da yawa juna biyu da haihuwa tayi girma.
Wasu mata masu ciki suna mafarkin mafarki. Kada ka kunyata. Watakila, saboda tsoron tsoron haifar da wani abu ga yaro mai zuwa, halayen ma'aurata na ɓacewa ko kuma sun daina faruwa. Ko kuma, akasin haka, mata da yawa a lokacin ciki suna da karfin jima'i. Wannan shi ne saboda babu tsoro da ciki maras so kuma babu buƙatar kare kanka. Saboda haka mafarki irin wannan.
Amma sau da yawa, mafarki mai ciki da mafarkai masu alaka da haihuwar haihuwar, yaro mai zuwa. Wannan haihuwar yana da wuyar gaske, an haifi yaron tare da wani lahani, rabuwar. Wannan shine kwarewar mahaifiyar. A al'ada, babu wanda ya san yadda duk abin da zai iya haihuwa, wanda zai iya tsangwama ga al'ada na al'ada. Amma ba wajibi ne a yi la'akari da mummunar ba a yayin yarinyar. Karanta kuma kallon fina-finai mai ban tsoro da watsa labarai. Sa'an nan mafarkin zai kasance lafiya, ba tare da mafarki ba.
Karin motsin zuciyar kirki, fina-finai masu kyau, shirye-shirye masu ban sha'awa! Ka yi tunani kawai na mai kyau! Kuma yafi kyau a yi wasu sha'awar lokacin daukar ciki. Mata da yawa sun gano kayan ɓoye da ɓoye. Yi ƙoƙarin zana, ƙaddamar da gicciye ko kuma sauƙaƙa - kuma yana da kyau, kuma zaka iya shirya waƙoƙin sadaka ga jaririn da ba a haifa ba!
Elena Romanova , musamman don shafin