A nan kana buƙatar fahimtar wasu matakai. Tashin ciki ba shi yiwuwa ya wuce mafi kyau a cikin shekaru 30 fiye da 25. Wannan shine babban abu da kake buƙatar fahimta. Kodayake kuna da kyakkyawar aiki, da dai sauransu. Wannan shi ne hakika. Kamar yadda kake gani, hawan ciki yana da ƙananansa, akwai ƙananan kaɗan daga cikinsu, amma bai isa ya kawo su ba, sabili da haka, dole ne mutum ya ce cewa kowane mace tana shirye don yin ciki har ma a lokacin girbi, kuma sauran sauran dabi'a. Saboda kowane mace wannan shekarun ya bambanta. Tambayar "Yaya mace take shirye don haihuwa? "Yawanci, yana da wuya a amsa shi. Yanzu za mu yi kokarin bayyana fasalin fasalin marigayi, wanda zai fara, za ku fahimci ko kuna shirye, ko kuma mafi kyau a jira.
Ya kamata ku gane cewa a shekaru 35 da haihuwa, mace ta rigaya ta cika mutum. Ta, a cikin shekarun nan, ta iya yin aiki, ta riga tana da mazauni. Wato, kwarewar rayuwarta ta riga ya isa, da kyau, ba la'akari da yaro ba. Wannan shekarun wani juyi ne. Bayan haka, idan ka dubi daga waje, zaka iya ganin cewa a cikin wata hanya zuwa shekaru 40 ba a nisa, da kyau, a cikin wani - jiki yana cike da ƙarfi, makamashi da kuma fata. Wannan shine damar karshe ta haifi jariri, ba tare da wani sakamako ba. Wato, wannan lokacin lokacin da matar ta kasance a shirye don haihuwa. Kuma yanzu, matar ta sake rikici, ta tuna da shekaru 20, lokacin da ta yi wannan zabi, sai kawai a can akwai wasu canje-canje. Ba ta san abin da za a yi ba, saboda ta riga ta yi tunani a kan rayuwarta, inda ta damu kawai game da aiki, sa'an nan kuma akwai irin wannan dama, don haka shi ma na karshe ne ... Ya kamata yayi zabi tsakanin aiki da gida. Zaɓin yana da hadari, amma, a ƙarshe, akwai aiki, an samu kwarewa mai kyau, yanzu za ku iya haifi jariri mai kyau. Wannan shine lokacin da matar ta kasance cikin hasara. Ba ta san abin da zai yi ba. Haka ne, yana da kyau a haifi, amma menene? Lokaci ne duk lokacin da zai tafi cikin jagorancin gaba daya. Kuma a lokaci guda, matar ta fahimci cewa zata iya rasa dukkan ayyukan da aka samu a lokaci ɗaya.
Wannan shine shekarun lokacin da mace ta riga ta shirya don ciki, amma ba a cikin jiki ba, amma a cikin halin kirki. 35 yana da shekaru lokacin da maza da mata suna shirye su haifi ɗa, su kula da shi, su kula da shi sosai.
Yaro yana da tasiri wanda yake jira na dogon lokaci, amma a ƙarshe mun sami yarima ko kuma jaririn, wanda ke kewaye da kansu, saboda ya fi kyau fiye da wanda aka haife shi kawai ba tare da wani ba, idan iyaye, a cikin layi tare da ci gaba da yaron, ya inganta aikin su. Wannan ba batun ba ne! Idan wannan ya faru, to, mace ba shakka ba a shirye don haihuwar jariri ba. Amma a cikin ciki mai ciki akwai zane. A cikin shekaru, yanayin jiki na mace bai inganta ba tukuna, wanda zai iya tasiri sosai ga yanayin ciki. Bugu da ƙari, an yi imani da cewa mace tana shirye don haihuwar jariri a cikin shekarun 20-24 - wannan shekarun yana da kyau, amma, kamar yadda ka fahimta yanzu, ba sauki ga kowa da kowa ba, domin. A nan kana buƙatar tunani a hankali game da duk ayyukanka. Masana kimiyya sun dade suna nuna cewa shiriyar zuciya ta zo shekaru 10 bayan jiki.
Bayan haka, bisa ga kididdigar yanzu, adadin matan da suka haifa da yaro a shekaru 30 zuwa 40, suna girma a kowace shekara, don haka wannan ya kamata a la'akari.
Idan har yanzu kuna yanke shawarar yin ciki, to, da farko, je wurin likitan ku. Zai gaya maka dalla-dalla game da kwararrun da kwarewa za ku ziyarta. Lura cewa don dace ciki, your thyroid gland shine ya kamata aiki da kyau. Me ya sa? Haka ne, saboda jaraban da aka samo shi, yana da tasiri sosai wajen kafa tsarin kula da yara na tsakiya, kuma suna da tasiri sosai akan hankali ga jariri. Wannan yaron ya haifa high-grade, yana da muhimmanci a bincika hakan a gaba. Don haihuwar jariri kana buƙatar yin shiri a hankali, tuna da shi.
Don haka, ya zama dole a lura da wani abu ɗaya, cewa yin ciki a cikin shekaru 20 da shekaru 30 a cikin katin zuciya ya bambanta. Bayan haka, yara masu ciki 30 da haihuwa suna shiga cikin haɗari, tun da yake hadarin haɗari maras haɗari na chromosomal a cikin mahaifiyar da ta tsufa yana da girma fiye da yadda mahaifiyar yaro take. Amma kada ku damu da shi. Fasaha yana ci gaba a manyan matakai, don haka zaka iya gane ganewar asirin tayi a lokaci.
A halin yanzu, magani ya kai irin wannan matakin cewa matan da suka riga sun wuce 35 zasu iya haifar da yara lafiya da lafiya.
Babban matsalar matukar ciki, a halin yanzu, ba a cikin matakan daukar ciki ba, amma a cikin lokacin tsarawa, domin yin ciki a wannan lokacin ya riga ya zama da wuya. Yana iya ɗaukar daga watanni 6 zuwa 12 don yin ciki. Abu mafi haɗari wanda zai iya faruwa a cikin aiwatar da marigayi ciki shine daban-daban iri-iri. Alal misali, idan wani abu ba ya tafiya bisa tsari, za'a iya haifa da Down syndrome. Amma kada ka damu da yawa, saboda yarinya mai shekaru 40 da haihuwa yana da ƙananan yara, sun kasance kusan 1%.
Amma mata da ke da shekaru 35 zasu iya samun kuskuren lokaci, haihuwa, a cikin kansu, yana da wuya, yana haifar da mummunan sakamako da kuma matsaloli daban-daban. Kada ka manta game da tasirin abubuwa masu guba da suka shafi jikinka a rayuwarka. Kuma daga baya ma haihuwa ta fara, mafi muni zairon zai kasance.
Mace mai ciki za ta kasance ba ta da mummunar halayya, kafin ta ci abinci sosai, tafiya a cikin iska mai sauƙi, kai bitamin.
Wannan shi ne duk fasali. Yanzu za ka yanke shawara - ko dai m rashin shiri, ko yiwuwar matsala ta ciki.