Mahimmancin zabar kyauta ga yarinya ba a cikin iyakokin damar ba, amma a akasin haka - a cikin yalwarsu. A gaskiya dai, matsalar babbar matsalar zabar kyauta cikakkiyar ita ce mata suna so sosai, abubuwan da suka dandana suna da bambanci daban-daban, kuma abubuwan da suka fi son rufe kusan dukkanin abin. Musamman mahimmanci irin wannan nauyin mace ya sa zabi na kyauta na asali. Bayan haka, ya kamata ba kawai son yarinyar ba, ya zama mata alama ce ta dangantakar da mai bayarwa, amma kuma a tuna da shi azaman abu mai ban mamaki. Ko da a cikin aikinsa wani abu ne, wadda ta dade daɗewa.
Sanin kyautar ba shine ainihin ainihi ba.
Kana so ka damu da ƙaunataccenka, da matarka ko kawai budurwarka tare da kyauta mai ban sha'awa, ba dole ba ka zabi wani abu da ba ta tsammani ba kyauta ba, amma za ta yi farin ciki tare da shi. Bayan haka, ana ba da kyauta na asali ga yarinyar a matsayin irin wannan ba kawai a kan yanayin da babu wanda ya ba wa kowa ba. Idan ana buƙatar, wani zauren ma'aikata maras kyau zai iya zama maras muhimmanci, idan kun gabatar da shi bambance-bambance ko shirya shi a cikin tsari marar tushe.
Tsarin mulki a yayin zabar kyauta na kyauta ga yarinya ba shine ya rasa ƙaunar da ta dade ba. Mace a cikin wannan girmamawa ta fi sauƙi fiye da namiji: tana son yin magana game da mafarkai, ta yi sau da yawa, amma kusan ko da yaushe a cikin wani sutura. Wannan shine dalilin da ya sa masu ilimin halitta basu damewa ba: wanda ya san yadda ba kawai sauraron mace ba, amma kuma ya ji, kuma mafi mahimmanci - fahimtar, zai iya zabar kyauta mafi kyawunta a cikin minti na minti. Bayan haka, a cikin wannan aikin, a gaskiya, babu wani abu mai wuya, saboda kyautar da aka zaba bisa ga muryar yarinyar ta zama ta zama mafi mahimmanci, idan kawai saboda mutum zai gabatar da ita tare da tabbacin cewa yana mai da hankali ga kalmominta. Kuma wannan ya kasance ga kowane yarinya - wani abu mai mahimmanci, ko da yaushe ba zato ba tsammani, kyauta mai ban sha'awa da abin tunawa.
Idan an gabatar da kyaututtuka ga yarinyar ta asali, to, za su zama maras muhimmanci ga mata. Ya dace da dukan bambancin, wanda kawai tunanin mutum zai iya. Don rage kyauta akan zinare daga saman bene. Don ɓoye shi a cikin gida kuma ya ɓoye bayanan da ya taimaka masa ya sami shi, raba rabaɗin cikin sassa kuma shirya shirin don taron.
Zaɓin ba-daidaitattun kyautar ba.
Don ba wa mace wani biki shine wata hanya mai ban mamaki ta mamaye ta. Amma idan kana so, kyautar kanta zata zama ainihin asali. Sai kawai a nan wani namiji ko mutum zai yi amfani da lokaci ba don bunkasa wani shiri na musamman don gabatarwarsa ba, amma don bincika kantunan garinsa don neman gizmos daban-daban. Halin kyautar kyautar ga yarinyar ta dogara ne bisa dabi'ar da kuma tsammanin wadanda aka baiwa kyauta.
Wasu lokuta wani sassauki na fensir tare da easel kuma yana iya zama maras muhimmanci - idan an tsayar da lokacin tsaka-tsakin a cikin rayuwar wanda ƙaunataccen ƙauna, kuma ba zata iya yanke shawara game da aikinta na gaba ba. Ko, idan dai ta yi ta kuka game da rashin sha'awar sha'awa a rayuwarta, ta iya gabatarwa da dama samfurori a lokaci ɗaya don neman sha'awarta: kamara ko samfurin hoto, tsari don ɓarna, salo na farko don gyare-gyare, da dai sauransu. Idan lokacin da aka gabatar da wannan kyauta jayayya, zaka iya gabatar da wani abu mai ban mamaki, amma wanda ba zato ba tsammani: tsattsarka mai tsabta don binne ƙiyayya, kwaikwayon mace don azabtar mai ƙauna marar laifi ko ma lalace don wasanni na ƙauna. Amma a nan ya zama wajibi ne a kiyaye matsakaicin kulawa: yarinyar yakamata ya fahimci ainihin kyautar kuma ya sami cike da haushi.
Kwanan nan, akwai lokuta masu ban sha'awa a matsayin kyauta na asali ga yarinya. Hakika, mai kyau kuma, babu shakka, lafiya. Idan jariri na ball zai iya bincika kokarin da aka sanya a cikin taron kuma ya tabbatar da cewa ba za a yi masa mummunan kisa ba, to hakan za a iya buga wannan wasan. Amma inda ya fi dacewa don shirya wa'adin ƙaunatacciyar ƙaunatacciyar ta tare da haɓaka ta ƙaunar da take takara a cikin matsayi na superhero. Ba a haife shi ba amma mace ce wadda ba ta son ƙaunatacciyar ƙaunatacciyar ikonsa. To, me yasa ba za a bayyana a gabanta ba a cikin kwarjin gizo-gizo-mutum, batman ko vampire daga jerin shirye-shiryen da kafi so. Kayan ado ga yarinya yana da kyau kuma, ba kalla ba, kyauta ne na asali.
Baitul misali ba.
Hakika, a cikin ainihin ainihin kyautar don ƙaunatacciyar - ra'ayi ba na musamman bane. Bayan haka, duk mutumin da mutum mai ƙauna yana son kyautarsa, ita kaɗai, ya kasance mafi ban mamaki, abin tunawa da maras muhimmanci. Saboda haka, kyaututtuka na asali na da tsawo da kuma asali, yana da wuyar suna suna saboda sanannun shahararrun su da kuma ƙarancin tsari da sababbin abubuwan kirkiro na maza.
Saboda haka, a yau yana da wuya a rarraba wasu kyaututtuka na asali, wanda a lokuta daban-daban sunyi godiya ga 'yan mata kuma saboda haka sun shiga cikin ƙungiya mai ban sha'awa na "gizmos maras kyau". Da farko, wannan shine abin da ake kira "horn horn": kyauta wanda ya ƙunshi 10 ko fiye da kananan bayanai - ƙyallen, fensir, fitilar lantarki, kayan shafa mai tsabta don kare shi daga ruwan sama, jaririn jariri, sautin kyandir da sauran kananan abubuwa kuma kada ku shiga cikin yarinya a cikin rayuwar yau da kullum, amma hakika ana ɗaukar ma'anar alama. Don wannan kyauta dole ne ya zama sanannun bayani. Ko kuma ya kamata a yi amfani da shi a kan hutu na yarinyar: alal misali, saka shi a cikin wani littafi da jariri kuma ya ciyar da ita da cake tare da cokali idan tana da ranar haihuwa.
Abu na biyu, gabatarwa ba kyauta bane, amma cikar sha'awa. Wato, yarinyar ba ta sami wani abu ba, amma damar da za ta ba da lokaci ta yadda ta so don dogon lokaci. Wannan zai iya zama katin ga wasu adadin sayayya a babban kujallarka da kuka fi so, takardar shaidar don tafiya zuwa sararin samaniya, sauna, salon kyakkyawa, da dai sauransu, ko kuma tikitin zuwa ga wasan kwaikwayo, wasan kwaikwayo, wasan kwaikwayo. Babu hane-hane a cikin jigon irin wannan kyauta. Amma akwai mulki na zinariya wanda ya dace: ya kamata ya yi tsohuwar mafarkin yarinyar da kuma cika burinta.
Abu na uku, halayen al'ada na sabon abu: laima a cikin zuciya, littafin rubutu na ɗakunan ajiya da ɗakunan ajiya, kullun da fuska mai ban mamaki, hoto wanda yake nuna jaruntakar kanta a cikin matsayin sarauniya, allahiya ko mashahuran shahararrun wasan kwaikwayo. A nan, zabin kuma yana da matukar fadi: daga murfin murya don tsinkayyar ruwan hoda mai ban sha'awa, zuwa ƙwanƙwara wanda yake da kama da heroine na hutun. Ko kuma wanda ya ba ta wannan yar tsana.