Yaya daidai da za'a kiyaye shi a karo na farko?

Tambaya a cikin jima'i na rayuwa a cikin mutane sau da yawa yakan taso ne a matsayin yarinya. Amma a lokacin tsufa, sha'awar sha'awar tasowa cikin kowa, komai jinsi. Mun gamsu da yanayi.

Amma idan a cikin dabba duniya jima'i, ko kuma mating, ya haifar da wajibi ne na haifuwa, sa'an nan kuma ga mutanen wannan wannan bukata na iya faruwa ne kawai 'yan lokuta a rayuwar. Mafi yawan sha'awa shine wasu bangarori na jima'i - jin dadi. Yau, jima'i wani muhimmin al'amari ne na rayuwa. Ga wasu, jima'i wata siffar ce, sha'awa ce ta sha'awa, hanya ta rayuwa, wata al'ada, manufa don tabbatar da kanta, bayyanar ƙarfin hali. Ga wasu shi ne nuna ƙauna, kuma ga wani ya zama wajibi na aure, hanya ce ta samun ... .. A wasu kalmomin, jima'i shine bangare na rayuwa wanda yake da ban sha'awa ga kowa. Halin halin jima'i ya dangana da ilimin, hanyar rayuwa, al'adu, dabi'a. Jima'i na iya zama kyakkyawa da mummuna, tare da yin amfani da tashin hankali da zalunci. Amma duk abin da mutum, a cikin kowane yanayi da ya kasance yana girma, farko na jima'i a gare shi yana da ban sha'awa sosai. Na farko jima'i zai iya zama da kyau da kuma mummunan shafi rayuwa. Dalili mara kyau zai iya haifar da lalacewa, da rashin jin dadi har ma da mania.

A zamanin Soviet, 'yan uwanmu waɗanda suka tsufa ba su san yadda za su kare kansu ba a karo na farko. Matasa na zamani sun sani game da jima'i kusan kusan dukkanin su. Duk wani bayani yana samuwa. Suna sane da cewa ban da sashin layi, jima'i na iya ba da matsala. Matsalar farko ita ce ciki maras so. Wannan shi ne irin dutse karkashin ruwa wanda ba'a tunanin lokacin lokacin farko na jima'i. Yawancin 'yan mata da maza sunyi imani da gaske cewa ba zai yiwu a "tashi cikin" ba a karo na farko, musamman ma tare da haɗuwar jima'i. Amma matasa suna da kuskure. Bugu da ƙari, akwai lokuta a lokacin da ciki ya faru a lokacin farkon lokacin haɗuwa a kusa da gabobin mata, ta hanyar wucewa. Hannun suna da tsari mai laushi, kuma spermatozoa sune kananan sun shiga cikin kullun gaba daya. Rahoton na gaba shine haɗuwa da jima'i. Don kauce wa nau'in jima'i marasa kyau, kana bukatar ka san yadda za'a kare shi a karo na farko.

Kafin bada shawara, Ina so in tuna cewa aikin farko na jima'i ya kamata ka yanke shawararka. Babu kamfani mai maye. Don haka, kada ku yi jima'i ba tare da kwaroron roba ba a kowace hanya. Duk da cewa matasa na yau da kullum suna da alaƙa da jima'i, "kimanin kashi 70 cikin 100 na matasa wadanda ke da jima'i da gangan suna kula da ƙwaƙwalwar roba. Amma wannan yana daya daga cikin mafi araha, mai lafiya ga lafiyar lafiya da ma'ana. Daga cikin namiji, akwai ra'ayi cewa robar roba ta rage rashin jin dadi. Amma katakon robar roba ta yau anyi shi ne daga kayan abu mafi kyau-matsakaita, wanda aka auna ta da microns. Haka kuma, akwai irin wannan, tare da kowane ƙarin "zamorochki", wanda aka yi amfani da ita don samun sababbin sauti. Kuma wasu ƙananan marasa lafiya za a iya jurewa, amma za a kare jima'i. Bayan haka, ciki ba tare da sha'awar haifar da matsalolin ba kawai ga yarinyar ba, kuma cututtuka na lalata lafiyar jiki, haifar da rashin haihuwa da kuma rashin mahimmanci a nan gaba.

Ana saron robar roba kafin yin jima'i, kuma an cire bayan karshen, guje wa saduwa kai tsaye tare da membran mucous na farji. Kuma m shi ba ya cire, amma bar dakin don maniyyi. Kada ku saya babban kwaroron roba da ƙananan azzakari, in ba haka ba zai iya zamewa kuma zauna a cikin farji kuma, a cikin ƙari, ƙananan robar roba da babban azzakari na iya fashe a lokacin da ba daidai ba. Hanyar karewa dan kadan ne mai raɗaɗi. Duk abin dogara ne akan jinƙan jinƙai na sirri, da daidaitawa da abokan tarayya, da nauyin hawan hymen, yawan lubrication da wasu dalilai.

Yawancin lokaci, yarinyar a farkon lokacin ya kamata a ba shi mai salo wanda zai kare mucosa na jiki daga raunin da ya faru, hawaye, fashe, kuma ya samar da jima'i mai jima'i. Amma wani lokacin lubrication ba shi da isasshen isa saboda, misali, matsalolin tunanin mutum. Bayan haka, musamman tare da karewa, don karewa daga microtraumas ya zama dole don yin amfani da lubrication artificial. A kan miyagun ƙwayoyi za ku ga gels da lubricants na musamman.

Idan saurayinku ya kasance mai mahimmanci ga "kare kariya", to, a farkon abokin tarayya za ku iya zuwa irin waɗannan kayan aikin kamar Patentex Oval ko Pharmatex, Contraceptin. Wannan magani na magungunan magani yana nufin - maganin rigakafi, wanda aka sa a cikin farji kafin yin jima'i don manufar haɓakawa da halakar spermatozoa. Shirye-shirye na samar da kumfa mai tsaro, wanda zai iya maye gurbin lubricant kansa, sabili da haka rage rashin jin daɗi a yayin da ake karewa. An gabatar da su sauƙi kuma ba tare da jin tsoro ba. Hannun suna dauke da ramuka daya ko ramuka inda jini ya zubar, don haka kyandir, kwaya, har ma fiye da haka cream zai tafi ba tare da dalili ba. Wadannan sunadarai da aka bayyana ba zasu iya samun ceto daga barazanar kamuwa da cuta ba, saboda haka zasu iya komawa cikin cikakkiyar amincewa da "tsarki" na abokin tarayya, tasirin su a wannan yanayin shine 80%. Amma, idan kunyi shakkar abokin tarayya, kuma kuka yi amfani da ita azaman ƙwayar ƙwayar, wannan shine karin "he-wand" -xah. Amfani mai kyau, abin dogara da dacewa a kyandir don yin rigakafi da magani ga yawancin cututtuka na yankin. Kawai tuna cewa zasu iya yin amfani da shi ba bayan sa'o'i biyu bayan kwance, don haka wannan ya isa ya sa a cikin farji kawai kyandir na miyagun ƙwayoyi. Hexicon yana aiki ne akan mutane da yawa pathogens. Wadannan sun hada da: cututtuka mai kwakwalwa, haddasa syphilis, chlamydia - chlamydia, gonococcus - gonorrhea, trichomonas - trichomoniasis, da kuma herpes na genital a general an rage zuwa kome. Hexicon yana da juriya mai kyau, an riga an umarce shi ga masu ciki da masu shayarwa.

Dukkan 'yan mata suna bada shawarar bayan farawa na jima'i, har ma da kyau kafin su yanke shawara suyi wannan mataki, ziyarci shawarwarin mata. Dole ne a tuna cewa shekaru mafi kyau don yin jima'i ba a farkon shekaru 17 zuwa 18 ba. Wata likita ta mace, bayan da aka yi ta tanadi, zai duba ku don lalacewa, rubuta takunkumin ƙwaƙwalwar rigakafi, ɗauka don dubawa kuma, idan ya cancanta, ya rubuta magani.