A matsayinka na doka, likitoci ba su bayar da shawara don yin jima'i a wasu yanayi, misali, idan akwai barazanar zubar da ciki, ba juna biyu, kasancewar zub da jini, da yiwuwar ba a haife shi ba, tsagewar ruwa na mahaifa, ƙananan ƙwayar cuta ko kuma wani ɓangare na jini a cikin ɗaya daga cikin abokan. A duk sauran lokuta, babu ƙuntatawa akan ci gaba da dangantaka mai kyau. Kuma binciken kimiyya na baya-bayan nan ya tabbatar da cewa a wasu lokuta, jima'i yana da mahimmanci.
Ga wasu al'amura masu kyau na jima'i a lokacin daukar ciki:
- Akwai wasu damuwa da cewa lokacin yin jima'i yana yiwuwa a lalacewar yaro a nan gaba. A gaskiya, wannan ba haka bane, yaro yana boye a karkashin wasu layuka, kare shi daga kowane hatsari. Ƙari na ciki na ciki tare da tsokoki da yawa mai yayyafi, da kuma nau'in kayan haɗin gwiwa; da mahaifa kanta, wanda ya ƙunshi tsokoki, tayin fetal, tarin fuka mai tayi cike da ruwa - duk wannan sassauci ya fito da wani tsinkaye, kuma a karshe, toshe mai ƙuƙwalwa wanda yake rufe ɗakunan.
- A lokacin jima'i da ƙaunatacciyar, jikin mace tana haifar da hormones na jin dadin, wanda kuma yana da tasiri a kan yaro.
- Tare da abstinence mai tsawo, wata mace mai ciki ta fara tarawa motsin zuciyarmu.
- A lokacin daukar ciki, babu buƙatar kare kanka.
- Maniyyi yana dauke da enzymes da hormones (prostaglandins) namiji, wanda ke da tasiri mai kyau, suna taimakawa gajiyar zuciya, wanda hakan zai taimaka mata ta bude mafi alhẽri yayin aiki.
- A lokacin jima'i, akwai rikitarwa daga cikin tsokoki na mahaifa, wanda ke zama irin gwagwarmayar horo a lokacin haihuwa, yana ba ka damar kauce wa aiki mai rauni. Bugu da ƙari, idan akwai halayen jinsin maza, mahaifa zai bude sauri.
- A lokacin da bayan motsa jiki, mahaifa ya fara kwangila, kuma babu barazana ga yaron da ba a haifa ba. Ya kamata a lura cewa idan mahaifa bai riga ya shirya don haihuwar haihuwa ba, to, haɓakawa a lokacin kogasma ba zai iya haifar da fara aiki ba. Amma idan tsawon lokacin daukar ciki ya riga ya zama babba, to hakan zai jawo farkon yakin. Abin da ya sa wasu likitoci sun ba da shawarar yin jima'i, a matsayin matakan fara aiki na kwanaki 39 zuwa 40.
Ba shi yiwuwa a ce daidai ko sha'awar jima'i a lokacin ciki zai mutu ko ya karu a akasin haka. Duk wannan yana dogara da dalilai masu yawa, ciki har da aikin jima'i a cikin mace kafin haifa, da kuma daga haɗuwa a cikin hormones lokacin daukar ciki. A kan wannan jimlar, akwai wata alama mai ban sha'awa: idan mace ta bukaci dan yaro, to, matakin jima'i yana da girma (mafi mahimmanci dalilin wannan yana iya zama babban adadin "hormones" namiji), kuma idan yarinyar tana jira, to, yana da ƙasa. Wasu mata suna lura da karuwa sosai a cikin sha'awar jima'i, wanda zai iya girma tare da karuwa a cikin lokacin daukar ciki. A wannan yanayin, ana iya tuna wannan lokaci a matsayin mafi kyau, ga mace da namiji. Kada kayi zaton kana yin wani abin kunya, amma ka yi amfani da wannan lokacin lokacin da kake cikin hawan jima'i.
Wataƙila a lokacin yin ciki, sha'awar zata iya ɓacewa gaba ɗaya. Wannan hali yana da fahimta, tun a wannan lokacin da hormone na kwantar da hankali ya fara girma, dukkan jikin mace na jin daɗin kasancewa ga iyaye. A wannan lokacin, yayin da ake jiran ɗan fari, mace zata ji tsoro saboda sabon matsayi, da kuma jin tsoron haihuwa. A irin waɗannan yanayi, za a iya ba da shawara ga mutum ya canza hanyarsa ga matarsa, kuma za a sake gina shi don ƙarin dangantaka ta platonic. Wajibi ne a bi da mace mai ciki da iyakar haƙuri da tausayi, don ƙoƙari ya nuna hankalinta da ƙauna a duk lokacin da zai yiwu. Yawancin lokaci, halin halayyar mace mai ciki za a iya kwatanta shi a matsayin wata hanya. Na farko watanni uku na sha'awar jima'i fara farawa, watanni uku masu zuwa - ya kara tsanantawa, kuma a cikin watanni uku na ƙarshe - sake ragewa. Saboda abin da ke faruwa? Mafi sau da yawa yana nuna cewa a farkon farkon watanni wata mace ta raunana saboda rashin lafiyar jiki da bayyanar tashin hankali, rashin lafiyar matalauta, gajiya, saurin yanayi (ba tare da hawaye ba, damuwa), zubar da ciki a cikin kirji.
A karo na biyu, tsoro da damuwa sun fara sannu a hankali. Inganta lafiyar lafiya, kuma sakamakon haka, sha'awar jima'i yana ƙaruwa. Yawancin likitoci sunyi dacewa da jima'i a wannan lokacin, tun da tayi a cikin mahaifa ta ƙarshe an gyara, kuma ba'a san abin da yake faruwa ba a cikin jiki. A cikin karshe trimester, sha'awa yana ragu. A mafi yawancin, wannan saboda rashin jin daɗin jiki na mace mai ciki, babban ciki zai iya haɗuwa da shi, kuma yana haifar da rashin tausayi a lokacin zumunci tare da mijin. Zai yiwu kuma bayyanar ciwo a lokacin abota. Halin tunanin mutum yana canje-canje, akwai tsoron tsoron haihuwa, kafin a sani ba.
Fasali na "jima'i" jima'i
Amma ba tare da wata mace ba, namiji kuma zai iya samun karuwa a cikin sha'awar jima'i, musamman a cikin watanni na ƙarshe na ciki. Irin wannan hali na iya tashi saboda jin damuwarsa da sabon matsayi a gare shi, sanarwa game da canje-canje a rayuwa, da kuma bukatar magance matsalolin da suka fi dacewa da su da sayen kaya, wutan lantarki, tufafi ga jaririn nan gaba, da bukatar yin gyare-gyare a ɗaki, da dai sauransu. Kodayake da yawa ya dogara ne akan ayyukan jima'i na duka abokan hulɗa. Amma a kowane hali, a wannan lokacin ya wajaba a shirya don gaskiyar cewa yana iya zama dole don rage yawan lambobin sadarwa kaɗan, kuma don sake duba zaɓin da aka zaba.
Akwai kawai 'yan haramtacciyar jima'i ga mace mai ciki:
- Babu wata hujja da ba za ta iya shiga cikin harsuna ba (jima'i jima'i, tare da ƙarfafa daga farji).
- An haramta shi sosai don yin jima'i tare da sababbin abokan tarayya, tun da akwai hadarin kamuwa da kamuwa da cuta.
Idan a lokacin bazawar babu matsaloli, misali, haɗuwa ko rushewa na perineum, kuma babu wani tsoma baki, to amma ana bada shawara don kauce wa jima'i cikin makonni 6 zuwa takwas. Idan ba ku so ku jure wa irin wannan lokaci mai tsawo, za ku iya jira, a kalla ƙarshen jini ya fita. Har ila yau wajibi ne a san cewa idan mace tana shan nono, a yayin tashin hankali, madara zai iya fara gudanawa daga cikin kanji, kuma yana iya zama dole a yi amfani da lubricant. Don kauce wa matsalolin da ba dole ba, ya kamata ka tuntuɓi likitanka game da kara maganin hana haihuwa. Akwai kuskuren cewa lokacin da kake shan nono, ba za ka iya yin ciki ba. Wannan ba haka ba ne, za'a iya dawo da aikin ovaries kuma a wannan lokacin, kuma a farkon bayan haihuwa na jarirai sabon ciki zai iya faruwa. Duk abin da ke sama ya ce game da jima'i a lokacin daukar ciki zai iya kasancewa da kalma ɗaya: "Jima'i a lokacin haihuwa da kuma bayan haihuwar - zaka iya, yana da muhimmanci, amma tare da kula da tausayi."