Kuma waɗannan ba komai ba ne, ba su ma kama da kullun furanni na Ukrainian. Wadannan rawanin ne, kamar kamar yadda akazantine miter, pompous da kuma ba daidai ba a bikin aure.
Dalilin yin aure ya dangana ne akan yardar matasa don haɗuwa da makomarsu. Wannan ake kira rantsuwa. Ya zo mana tun lokacin zamanin arna. A gaskiya ma, rantsuwa shi ne abin da ke tattare da dukkanin tsarin aure. Matasa a gaban iyayensu, dangi, sanannun sunyi rantsuwa da juna. Ikilisiyar ba zata iya watsi da wannan muhimmin al'ada wanda ya tasiri hali ba, sanin mutane. Bayan da ma'aurata suka fara auren a coci, wannan rantsuwa ta zama abin da ake bukata na bikin aure. Wannan shine ainihin yanayin Ikilisiyar Orthodox. A nan ya kamata a lura cewa Ikklisiyar Orthodox, na tsawon shekarun rayuwarsa ta zaman kanta (ko da yake ko da shike shi ne na Ikklesiyar Orthodox na Russia) ya sami halaye da yawa waɗanda sauran ikklisiyoyi basu san ba. Wadannan siffofi suna cikin littattafan liturgical, bukukuwan da bukukuwa na coci.
Liturgical, da kuma cikin rubutun majami'a na kullum sun canza kuma kusan basu kasancewa ɗaya ba. Wannan ya shafi nauyin sacrament na aure. Koda a cikin tsohon tsoffin harsunan Helenanci babu wani cikakkiyar ɗayan ra'ayi - suna dauke da wani ra'ayi na saba wa juna. Don haka yana cikin litattafan da aka yi a sassa daban-daban na Ukraine. A cikin tsohuwar alamomin Ukrainian an nuna matakai biyu na rantsuwa. Na farko shi ne betrothal (yarinya) da kuma bukukuwan aure.
Bisa ga dokar da aka yi na 93 na shida Kwamitin Ecumenical, wanda ya kare, ya kamata a yi aure. Kuma idan wani ya auri yarinyar da aka yi wa wani, to, "bari zina ya kasance mai laifi". Wani lokaci, a ƙarƙashin rinjaye masu yawa, bayan haka, an ba 'yanci damar yadawa bayan da coci ya shiga. Kada ku karɓa ba bayan bayan aure ba, amma har ma bayan bikin aure. Kamar yadda muka ambata a baya, wannan ya faru a shekara ta 1774, lokacin da majalisa na Ikklesiyar Orthodox na Russia ya shiga cikin auren da bikin aure a cikin wannan tsari, wanda aka gudanar a ranar bikin aure.
An girmama al'adar yin rantsuwa a Ikklesiyar Orthodox na Ukrainian. Ba tare da shi ba, ba a ɗauka aure ba. Kuma duk saboda wannan al'ada ne mutane, sabili da haka yana da iko da iko mai girma. A cikin ma'auni na Shumlyansky daga 1687, an ba da rubutun rantsuwa a ƙarshen littafi na hudu, kuma a kasa an rubuta cewa: "Ba tare da yin rantsuwa ba, malicism ba zai iya zama ba." An samo wannan nau'in a dukan tsoffin littattafan Ukrainian, wanda ya fara a 1646 da Lviv da Kiev. A cikin kayan aiki na Moscow babu alkawari.
Wadannan '' yanci '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' sun shaida wa Tsar Peter I, na Rasha, kuma ya umarci majalisa mai tsarki ya dubi ko akwai bambanci daga littattafan Ikilisiyar Moscow a Moscow. Wannan tsari, ranar 5 ga Oktoba, 1720, shine ainihin farkon hallaka
al'amuran al'ada a cikin Ikklisiyar Orthodox Ukrainian. Tun daga wannan lokacin, an riga an buga littattafai a Moscow bisa ga samfurori na Moscow, daga gare su irin wannan muhimmin abu a bikin aure, a matsayin rantsuwa. Amma a cikin dukiyar Lviv, inda babban sarki ba zai iya isa ba, al'adar rantsuwa ta kasance har yau. A cikin Galicia, ko a yau, yayin bikin aure, matasa suna rantsuwa da juna. An sake dawo da wannan biki kuma a Volhynia. Mahaifin da suke tunawa da shi sau da yawa suna tambayi wani malamin addinin musulunci: "Yara sunyi rantsuwar rantsuwa don su karfafa matar."
Wannan nau'i na rantsuwa yana da ban sha'awa a cikin cewa yana nuna alamar auren dimokuradiyya. A lokacin da ra'ayin Ikklisiya ya ce mace ta zama bawa ga mutum, a Ukraine da Rasha, an yi alkawarin matasa cewa: "Na dauki ku mataimaki," yarinya ya yi rantsuwa, kuma ta ce: "Ina daukan ku a matsayin mataimaki." Saboda haka, samari biyu sun haɗa da juna suna rantsuwa da juna, sun haɗa juna don taimaka wa junansu don taimakawa junansu da yin rantsuwa ba kawai a wannan ba, har ma cewa "ba lokaci ne mai farin ciki da rashin jin daɗi don rage ku ba har mutuwar ku ko na ". Wannan ya riga ya fahimci ainihin fahimtar ainihin aure, ayyukan da suka fi muhimmanci ga ma'aurata. Dukkan wannan ya nuna matsayin al'adun jama'armu tun zamanin d ¯ a.
Bayan rantsuwa, matasa suna karbi. Lokacin da suke amsawa a gaskiya, dattawa da kuma saurayi ya shimfiɗa tawul din a gaban su a ƙasa. Ka sani, ana iya yin tawul da furanni daban-daban ko alamu, tare da dukkan launuka, sai dai baki.
Matasa bayan bikin aure ya dawo gida. A wasu lokuta, a ƙofar, mafi yawa a kan ƙofar gidan sukan gamu da iyayensu. Mahaifiyar ta soma sabbin 'yan matan aure tare da hatsi kuma sun sumbace duka biyu.
Yara na gode. Kiss mother. Bayan haka mahaifinsa ya ba da yara a gilashi yayin da suke sha, ya koya musu, yana so ya zauna lafiya da kuma dogon lokaci. Young godiya kuma sumbace mahaifin. Bayan wannan, iyaye suna ba da gumakan sabon aure, wanda suka sami albarka. Suna sumbace gumakan kuma suna gode wa iyayensu.