A lokacin da yaro, lokacin da lokaci ya zo don ƙauna na fari, samari da 'yan mata sukan gane cewa suna da ra'ayi daban-daban game da yadda masoya su yi amfani da lokaci. Matashi ya tabbata cewa babban aikin su shine kafa mafarki mai kyau a cikin wuri-wuri kuma a duk lokacin da zai yiwu don yalwata cikin jima'i na jima'i. Yarinyar tana tsammanin abin da ya fi kyau a cikin karɓa shine tafiya a ƙarƙashin wata, tattaunawa da yawa a kan wayar da kuma goggoguwa. Duk da ƙauna na gaskiya ga gwarzo, ba ta kasance ba, kamar yadda suke cewa, "ci gaba." Wannan shi ne saboda gaskiyar cewa don sha'awar yin jima'i a jikin mutum ya hadu da testosterone hormone. An samar da ita a cikin mace da jikin mutum, amma adadin ya dogara ne akan shekarun mutumin. A samari matasa da ke da shekaru 16 zuwa 20 suna fama da mummunar haɗari, suna cikin ikon da suke tunani akai game da jima'i. Kuma sau da yawa ba su kula game da ingancinta, babban abu shine gaskiyar kanta.
Kuma a cikin jikin mace a wannan lokacin, samar da testosterone ba shi da girma kuma yana cigaba da hankali sosai, saboda haka yana da karfin zuciya, kuma budurwar ta yarda da jima'i kawai, amma kawai ya yarda da sha'awar mai son, kuma baya samun jin dadi daga jima'i.
Yayin da shekarun haihuwa 25 ke ciki, jiki namiji yakan kai ga hawan hawan hormonal, wanda aka gudanar da kimanin shekaru 10. Yarinyar a wannan lokaci yana cigaba da ƙara yawan samar da kwayoyin testosterone da kuma samuwar jima'i. Saboda haka a shekarun 28-32 a cikin dangantaka da jima'i na jima'i da dama an kafa, domin a wannan lokacin an cire mace mai tsayi na testosterone da kuma namiji na saukowa namiji. Mutumin da ya tsira daga lokacin haɗari na hormonal da ya motsa shi don bincika sabon ra'ayi da jin dadi ya zama mafi kwanciyar hankali da kuma kiyaye shi, an saita shi don yin dangantaka mai tsawo tare da abokin tarayya. Yarinyar tana farfadowa da sha'awa, kuma ta fara jin dadin jima'i - kimanin kashi 20 cikin 100 na jima'i na jima'i bayan bayan farawa da farawa 30.
A nan gaba, layin "testosterone cross" ya raguwa, saboda bayan shekaru 30-35 da yawancin samin namiji na samo asalin samo asali na kimanin 1% a kowace shekara (wasu dalilai na iya kara hanzarta wannan tsari, alal misali, tare da kiba, "ragu" zai iya kai 10%). A cikin rayuwar mutum, jima'i ya daina yin irin wannan muhimmiyar rawa kamar dā. A halin yanzu, 'yan mata a duk lokacin da suke ciki: a duk lokacin wannan cigaban testosterone a cikin jikin mace yana kara karuwa kuma yana kaiwa tayin ta shekaru 40. Yin jima'i ya zama dole a gare ta, amma 'yan uwansa ba su fuskanci irin wannan bukata, wanda, kamar kanta a matashi, yanzu yana buƙatar da haske fiye da abubuwan da suka dace.
Kuma gawar yarinyar a halin yanzu an shirya shirye-shirye don "ninka" banners, saboda yanayin ba a nisa ba. Gaskiya ne, kafin aukuwar annobar cutar hormonal, wadda ta ƙayyade kalma "a cikin babba 45". Wani abu mai kama da zai iya faruwa a cikin maza, don haka suna da "gashin gashi a gemu, shaidan a cikin haƙarya." A wannan duniyar, auren rikice-rikice yakan rushe kuma an haife ma'aurata daban-daban. Kuma, idan a baya mutumin ya tsufa da matarsa, to, kwanan nan yana da alamar bayyanar ma'aurata, inda matar ta tsufa fiye da takwarorinta, a Turai yawancin auren yana da kusan 9%.
A cikin 'yan shekarun nan na rayuwar mutane a cikin' yan shekarun nan, ma, akwai canje-canje. Idan kafin an ɗauka cewa tare da shekaru, haɗin mutumin ya kamata a ɓacewa a hankali, amma yanzu ra'ayoyin sun canza. A yau an yi imani da cewa tsawon lokaci mutum zai kasance mai yin jima'i, mafi kyau. Kuma yawan mutanen da, duk da shekarun da suka yi ritaya, ci gaba da jin dadi, suna cigaba da girma, fiye da rabin maza a cikin 60 suna cikin su (shekaru 15 da suka gabata sun kasance kusan rabin hamsin). Kuma likitoci sun yarda da shi, saboda an riga an tabbatar da cewa hanyoyin da tsufa suka yi "jin tsoro" na jima'i, kuma wadanda ba su musun kansu ba, an kaddamar da su daga baya.