Idan kun yi imanin cewa dangantakarku tana da hangen zaman gaba, gwada ƙoƙari sosai don yin magana da abokinku game da auren mata daya da kishi. Bayyana yadda kake gane tarurruka da wasu mutane da kuma yadda kuke ji game da abokiyarku da wasu mata. Zai yiwu ka yanke shawarar kammala ƙungiya ɗaya. In ba haka ba, ƙoƙarin shiga wani yarjejeniya, yi amfani da wasu dokoki - alal misali, kamar:
1. Yi la'akari da jima'i da yin jima'i tare da wasu mutane ba tare da yin tunani ba kuma ku amince da gaba akan yarda da waɗannan abubuwan a cikin kowane hali.
2. Don shiga jima'i kawai tare da mutanen da ba ku san ku ba, ko waje da birni, ko kuma mutanen da ba ku san ƙauna ba.
3. Kowane abokin tarayya yana da 'yancin "dayawa" kyauta a kowane mako.
4. Kada ku tattauna dalla-dalla game da "karin" jima'i ko rufe duk abin da ke faruwa daga abokin tarayya. Tabbatar tabbatar da yadda za ku fahimci labarin game da haɗarin ainihin ko hadari idan akwai "lakage bayanai" na haɗari.
5. Idan kuna son aikata wani abu da ya wuce al'amuran ku, ku sanar da abokin tarayya a gaba.
6. Koyaushe kula da rike gaskiya da amincewa.
Translation by A. Gerasimov "Hanyar zuwa Zuciyar Mutum"