Tarihin jinsin
Haka ne, kalmar "flirtation" a asali yana nufin daidai da ikon bada furanni. Ya bayyana a tsakanin masu saurare a Faransa a tsakiyar karni na 17 zuwa 18th. Kodayake tarihi na tayar da hankali ya wuce cikin karnoni, a cikin al'amuran, ga shahararren marubuta na duniyar duniyar, Cleopatra. Ita ce Sarauniya ta ƙarshe daga daular Ptolemawa wadda ta kawo turare, mai, da turare da pheromones, wadda ta yi amfani da ita wajen jawo hankali ga jima'i. A wannan zamani, kalmar Turanci ta Chesterfield ta gabatar da kalmar "flirting". Ya bayyana daya daga cikin manyan hanyoyi na Lady Francis, inda ta yi amfani da fasaha na yin fim tare da taimakon wani fan: ta bude ta, sa'an nan kuma rufe shi, sa'an nan kuma ya ɓoye dukan fuska, sai kawai idanunta. Ta yi haka a fili cewa mutumin da ya yi magana da ita ya yi magana game da halin lalata, ta ce ta yi wa kanta kanta, kuma wannan ma an kira shi firi. Tun daga wannan lokaci, irin wannan yanayin ya zama classic.
Ƙididdigar fatar
Kuma wasu tufafi, takalma, gyare-gyare, kayan haɗi, kayan turare - duk sun zama halaye marasa dacewa na jaraba da kuma coquetry.
Dangane da wanda yake yin amfani da flirting, namiji ko mace, ya kasu kashi cikin jaraba ko coquetry bi da bi.
Hanyar gwaji
Maza a cikin mafi rinjaye har yanzu suna amfani da jaraba na gwajin, maza da gaske ba sa sha'awar wasan don kare kanka da kanta kanta, ba kamar mata ba. Shahararrun fushi na Don Juan da Casanova suna da ban mamaki, kawai tasiri mai tasiri a kan mata. Mene ne dalili? Dukkanin hanyoyin.
1) Mai hankali, nazarin binciken shine makami ne mai karfi na mutum wanda yake yin jima'i, dole ne ya kasance mai gaba da tsoro, mai ban sha'awa. Tare da irin wannan kallo wani mutum yana nuna maka sha'awa da tsinkaya ga wanda ya zaba.
2) Matsayi mai laushi, tsaka-tsalle, ƙuƙwalwa-don haka namiji yana nuna ƙarfinsa, amincewa da muhimmancinsa. Mace, ko ta so ko a'a, zai raba shi daga daruruwan wasu.
3) Smile - lambar makamai 1 a cikin jarabawar jaraba tsakanin mata da maza. Wannan kawai murmushi ne na mutum ba abu ne mai ban sha'awa ba, amma, maimakon yarda, yana nuna cewa yana da kyau in kalle ku.
4) Harkokin motsa jiki ba su da mahimmanci ga maza a lokacin yunkuri. Suna yin shi ba tare da gangan ba, duk abin da ke faruwa ta hanyar kanta: sauki a taɓa kuncinka, kamar duba gashin prickly bristles, saka kanka a kan chin ko gyara taya - idan mutum yayi shi duka, tabbas, kana son shi a madadin - kuma hakan ba wancan kuma, a matsayin flirting.
5) Taimakawa - bayar da jaket ko gashi ko laima, bude kofa - ba kawai dokoki na dandano mai kyau ba ko alamar cewa mutum yana kula da lafiyarka - wannan shi ne zubar da jini wanda aka tsara a cikin wakilan mawuyacin jima'i. Ƙwararrun launi na troubadours waɗanda suka raira waƙoƙi serenades ga ƙaunatacciyar ƙaunataccen su a ƙarƙashin windows ko aika furanni tare da bayanin sirri. A hanyar, mai shahararren jaridar Casanova ya yi amfani da waɗannan abubuwa masu rarrafe, ba tare da kirkirar dabaru ba. Babban makaminsa shine amincewa da ƙauna ga mata.
Dabaru na flirt
Fatar mata yana da rikitarwa, mafi mahimmanci. Mata suna yin ba da gangan da kuma musamman, domin yin amfani da su, don cimma burinsu. Shine wakilan jima'i na gaskiya da suka kasance masu fararen kullun, wanda ya fara zina mutum, ja shi cikin wasansa.
1) Halin mace ba wai wani mutum ne mai sassaucin ra'ayi ba, amma akasin haka - rashin jinƙanci ne, marar tushe. Kwararrun nau'in jinsin - wani abu mai banƙyama, tsinkayyi mai ban tsoro, kallon idanu da kallo a kasa, maimaitawa, wani iko ya rufe ido a minti daya. Wannan ra'ayi ba zai bar kowa ba.
2) Smile - ba dole ba ne lebe, saboda haske, mai ban sha'awa a idanu ma wani murmushi ne, kuma zata ba shi sha'awa a gare su.
3) Harshen haruffan - sauƙin juya gashin gashi, kamar yanda yake ɗaukakar wuyansa, mai sauƙin takalmin takalma, mai kayatarwa da kafa ɗaya zuwa wancan - mutum, ko yana son ko a'a, zai zama dan takarar da ba dama ba a cikin wasanku.
4) Kyakkyawan murya-mai laushi. Maza maza sun bambanta da shi daga daruruwan mutane, kuma dariya na da tausayi, farin ciki, dukkanin wadannan ayyukan suna ba tare da su ba. Abin da ke da muhimmanci shi ne abin da kake faɗar: batutuwa masu rikitarwa, kalmomi masu mahimmanci - kuma zub da jini zasu sami wani abu mai ban sha'awa.
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