Abincin abincin Romantic tare da kyandir, zafi mai laushi, ƙarancin caresses ... Sa'an nan kuma daga babu inda - wani fashewa da bala'i bace. Tabbas, yana da matukar wuya a tabbatar da irin wannan yanayi mai ban mamaki. Amma sanin ka'idodin taimako na farko kamar yadda ya kamata a gare mu!
Bisa ga binciken da aka yi a Birtaniyar shaguna, a yayin cin abincin caca, game da kashi daya cikin uku na mutane a kullum suna shan raunuka daban-daban. Mafi yawancin su shine abrasions a kan gwiwoyi da yatsun kafa, sutura da ƙyallen baya, kwance da yatsun kafa da wuyan hannu, ƙuƙwalwa a kafafu da kuma yankunan hibiscus, da baya da baya, da kangewar kai da magungunan ƙasusuwa. Kuma wannan shi ne duk da cewa mahimmancin Britons sun yi shiru game da kwayoyi masu asiri, wanda ke taka muhimmiyar rawa wajen aiwatarwa da kuma abin da ke fama da rashin lafiya. Amma ba zamu fito daga lissafin wajabi ba! Ga misalin yawan raunin da aka samu a lokacin bukukuwan da aka ba da taimako na farko da za'a bayar a kowane shari'ar da ke sama.
Shin, ƙawataccen mutum ne?
Menene ya faru? A matsayinka na mai mulki, masoya biyu suna kulle kansu a ɗakin dakuna kuma suna shirya marathon mafi yawan gaske. Amma wani lokaci zai iya ƙarewa tare da "marar launi" marasa kyau a wuri mai ban sha'awa ga mutum ... I, a, yana da mutunci na namiji!
Tushen matsalar . Tun daga zamanin d ¯ a, an yi la'akari da azzakari mai karfi na namiji a matsayin alama ce ta iko da maza. Amma a gaskiya ma jiki marar dadi ba haka ba ne, amma har ma da madaidaici. A takaice dai, frictions mai tsawo da tashin hankali na iya haifar da rushewar ƙananan jini. A wasu kalmomi, mai karfi na aiki yana wakiltar wakilan mawuyacin jima'i game da hadarin gaske.
Taimako na farko . A cikin yanayin, idan azzakari na mutum ya canza launin launi, to lallai bazai jinkirta lokaci ba kuma za a iya sauke kankarar da kake so a wuri-wuri. A sakamakon haka, sannu-sannu kananan ƙananan ƙananan za su zama kodadde kuma bayan lokaci zai wuce da kansu. Wannan shi ne kawai ya zama dole a shirya don tsawon abstinence, wanda ya dauki tsawon mako daya zuwa biyu. A kan irin wannan kwayar da ta dace, a matsayin mai mulkin, hematoma yana da yawa fiye da, misali, girar ido a ƙarƙashin idanu. Amma kafin a sake dawo da "ya ji rauni" ya fi kyau a wasu lokuta kada ku dame shi!
Kamar dai ya karya kansa?
Menene ya faru? Wasu mutane suna son matsayi lokacin da matar ta kasance a saman, har ma maɗaukaki ga duk abin ya juya, to, hagu, to, dama. Amma bayan haka, a cikin lokaci ɗaya zaka iya "shiga"! Alal misali, wani "saukowa" marar nasara kuma zaka iya yin magana a cikin ma'anar kalma saurara, sa'annan bayan azabar azzakari zai iya fara tashi a wani kusurwa, ko da bayan da ciwo da uchidotecs suka fita.
Tushen matsalar . Yana da rashin fahimtar cewa a tsarinsa namiji na jima'i ba shi da kasusuwa, a cikin yanayin jin dadi kuma yana iya gyarawa. Saboda mummunan zafin jiki, daya daga cikin manyan ruwayen yana iya fashewa. A wannan lokacin zaka iya jin auduga, kamar ball mai fashe. Gangar da aka ji rauni ya zama blue-ja kuma sananne sosai.
Taimako na farko . Don farin ciki mai girma a cikin wannan kyakkyawar kasuwanci, fashewar ya faru sosai. Amma wannan shine lamarin, a lokacin da ya kamata ka tuntubi likita. Tare da taimakon wani damfara mai sanyi kana buƙatar cirewa kuma ziyarci likitan uro nan da nan. A hanyar, ko da daga lokacin damuwa 'yan kwanaki, to, sannan kuma - duk za'a iya gyara sau ɗaya. Wannan shine babban abu, don shawo kan mutum a cikin gashin gashi don jin kunya!
Na tuna da duk abubuwan da kuka yi!
Menene ya faru? Wannan lamari, tabbas, ya saba da yawancin mata mata: mutane suna son saurin tafiya. Kuma duk abin da ya faru, a matsayin doka, da sauri da cewa mace ba ta yi nasara ba wajen samun farin ciki. Bayan irin wannan mummunan lokacin akwai jin cewa idan an sarrafa ku daga ciki tare da taimakon imery. Haka ne, kuma wani mutum kuma zai iya kokawa da redness da ƙonawa.
Tushen matsalar . Abokan tarayya, mai tausayi, bazai lura ba cewa akwai isasshen lubrication na halitta don motsa jiki mai juyayi baya da waje. A sakamakon haka, samfurori da microclimb, ƙwaƙwalwa da ƙonawa sun zama aboki na duka masu halartar jima'i.
Taimako na farko . Tare da taimakon hydrogen peroxide, yana da kyau a bi da dukan abrasions da ƙyamar haske, sa'an nan kuma a shafa su da maganin shafawa tare da kwayoyin. Kuma game da makomar, ya fi dacewa a ajiye shi a kan irin wannan hali tare da lubricants artificial, lubricants kuma kauce wa jima'i "bushe".
Tsaya a cikin ku
Menene ya faru? Wannan abu ne mai ban sha'awa, amma wani lokaci a tsakiyar abubuwan da ke faruwa a cikin farji na mace akwai raguwa a cikin tsokoki, saboda abin da mutum ya shiga azabtarwa, kuma mutumin baya iya motsawa. Ba labari mai ban dariya ba ne daga wasan kwaikwayo!
Tushen matsalar . Dalilin "ƙulle" sanannen shine haɓaka kai tsaye na tsokoki na farji. A kimiyya, ana kira wannan tsari "vaginismus". A nan ne tushen matsalar shi ne aka kafa ta hanyar haɓaka iyaye masu kyau (shawarar da iyaye suka nuna cewa jima'i ba daidai ba ne) ko kuma cikin rashin jima'i.
Taimako na farko . Irin wannan kunya yakan faru a cikin kwari da dabbobi masu rarrafe. A lokacin jima'i, namiji na jima'i yana da kyau sosai ta hanyar farji. Amma don su 'yantar da kansu, wasu kwari suna miƙa sadakarsu mai mahimmanci sannan su mutu. Kuma game da azzakarinsa, ya cika nauyin kwarewa mai kyau, wanda ya hana dakatarwa daga jikin samksemennogo ruwa. Maza a cikin wannan matsala suna da sa'a: don rage "rudani" kawai ka sanya yatsanka a cikin karfin mace kuma ka kwantar da karfin. Ko kuma jira har sai "fursuna" ya rage a girman.
Bridle memory
Menene ya faru? A lokacin da ake jin dadi, mutum ya tsage, abin da ake kira "bridle", wanda ya haifar da bayyanar jini.
Tushen matsalar . Sau da yawa yakan faru cewa bridle da ke haɗuwa da goshin baki da kuma shugaban azzakari ba shi da isasshen tsawon. Ta hanyar, a wasu lokuta an yanke shi a asibitin tare da manufar kawar da rashin jin daɗi a lokacin yin jima'i. Amma yawanci nama mai laushi ya kakkarye ta kanta. Kuma yana da mahimmanci yana faruwa ne a farkon ƙaunatacciyar ƙaƙa.
Taimako na farko Don magance wannan yanayi mara kyau, ya isa kawai don haɗuwa da gashin auduga mai launin fata zuwa wurin da rupture ya faru. Bayan 'yan kwanaki (yawan kwanakin ya dogara da halayen jiki don warkar da kyallen takarda), ranca ya karu kuma an kafa wutan a wannan wuri, saboda abin da ya kamata a yi da gilashi kamar yadda ya kamata. Kuma idan lamarin ya faru ba zai wuce ba, to lallai ya zama dole ya nuna wurin rupture ga likita.
Kuma ya soki shi
Menene ya faru? Wannan yana faruwa sau da yawa saboda sauyawa a cikin matsayi. Alal misali, lokacin da mishan mishan ya zama sabon abu: mace tana jefa ƙafafunsa a kan kafadun mutumin. Mutumin yana da ban sha'awa sosai, amma ga wasu mata, za su ji jin zafi marar dadi.
Tushen matsalar . Matsayi, lokacin da mace ta kafa ƙafafunsa a kan ƙafar abokinta, an kira shi "jami'in". Kuma wannan matsayi ne mai banƙyama sosai, amma saboda sabuntawa ne na azzakari, wanda ba'a samuwa a fadin farjin, kuma ba tare da shi ba. Mutumin, da sanin wannan, yayi ƙoƙari ya shiga cikin mace, kamar yadda zai yiwu kuma hakan zai haifar da lalacewa ga nau'in nama. Hakika, babu wanda zai musun cewa gaskiyar irin wannan yanayi zai iya faruwa a wasu wurare. Musamman idan abokinku yana mai shi ne mai girma na mutunci mai girma.
Taimako na farko . Kulle-ƙaryar abu mai sauqi ne - wannan zance ne kawai akan irin wannan batu "rashin lafiya"! Maza ba za su iya tunanin cewa wata mace ba ta yin nishi da farin ciki ba. Kuma mata suna fama da wahala, suna tabbatar da cewa suna son shi sosai. Kuma bayan duk takmozhno don jimre da kuma kafin hutu ... A ƙarshe, duka abokan tarayya za su shawo kan jinkirin jiran warkar! Amma wajibi ne a nuna ainihin abin da matsala ta kasance da kuma ragewa!
Ka tuna cewa a cikin wasan ƙauna, kamar dai a cikin yakin: ba wanda ba shi da wani rauni!