Ɗauka, alal misali, wani abu mai kama da kishi. Ba tare da neman taimako ga Wikipedia ko Google ba, kowa zai ba da ma'anar wannan ma'anar, banda haka - kowa da kowa yana fuskantar shi a rayuwa. Za mu yi ƙoƙari mu gaya maka, menene kishi: kwarewar nasara ko mai kisankai na farin ciki?
A ina ne "kafa" yake girma cikin kishi?
Abin takaici ne, amma kishi yana da dabi'a mai ma'ana, wato, kasancewa cikin farin ciki da gamsuwa da rai yana da wuya a tilasta wa kansa yin kishi, ko da yake yana yiwuwa. Amma kasancewa cikin takaici, kuma yayin da kake kallon wani abu da ba ka da shi, jin dadin karfi a wani wuri a cikin zurfin zuciyarka yana da wuya a guji.
Duk wanda ya fada wani abu a can, amma kowa yana kishi banda banda. Kowace safiya, yarinya mai laushi yana kishi ga wanda yake daidai da biyayya. Tsayawa a tasha don tsammanin safarar jama'a, kowa yana jin tsoron masu motocin da ke wucewa. Kishiyar yarinyar "pyshki" ga yarinyar "bakin ciki" ba shi yiwuwa. Ko da magunguna suna da kishi da launin fata, kuma hakan ya zama daidai. Zai yiwu ba za ka iya kiran wanda ya kasance a koda sau ɗaya a rayuwarsa ba yada kishi ba, sai dai jariri, amma wannan hujja ba a binciko shi ba a matakin kimiyya.
Wannan ba aboki ba ne, kawai wasu mutane suna kishi da yawa kuma sau da yawa wasu. Wani yana mai saukin kamuwa da "ƙuƙwalwar toad", wanda ba zai iya ɓoye shi da ƙwarewar aiki ba, kuma ya zama marar yiwuwa kuma ba shi da kyau don sadarwa tare da wannan mutumin. Wasu suna iya yin tunanin, suna nuna kishi a ƙarƙashin jin daɗin jin daɗi. Ba wani asirin kowa ba ne cewa kishi ba'a yarda da al'umma ba. Har ila yau, kishi yana sane, amma fahimtar gaskiya: "Ina kishi" da "kishi - m" ya fi wuya a rayuwarsa, yana fama da kansa kullum.
Kwayoyin cututtuka na "latsa ƙugiya"
Kamar yadda aka sani daga tafarkin kimiyyar ilimin makaranta, "babu wani abu da aka dauka a ko'ina kuma bai tafi ko'ina ba tare da dalili ba". A nan ma, hauka ba a haife shi daga wani wuri, amma ana haifar da wani abu wanda yake da sha'awa. Idan bayan tattaunawar da wani wanda ya damu da halinka ba tare da wani dalili ba, ya yi baƙin ciki, ya rinjaye tambayoyin falsafa, akwai wasu abubuwan da ke fushi da fushi cikin muryarka - da kyau, sannu, kishi! Muna ba da shawara don kwantar da hankali, cire kanka tare, magance matsalar da kuma batun kishi, kuma mafi mahimmanci - fahimtar yadda zaka cimma wannan. Ra'ayoyin da kuma ci gaban dabarun zai bunkasa yanayi, tun da yake wannan tsari ne yake aiwatar da wannan ɓangaren kwakwalwa wanda yake da alhakin motsin zuciyarmu.
"Toad-chameleon"Wata rana wani ya nuna ra'ayi na launin kishi da wasu launi, wato baki da fari. Irin wannan rarraba, don gaskiya, ya fi kuskure. Idan akai la'akari da launuka daga launin fari zuwa baki, za'a iya ganin cewa adadin ƙarancin ƙaranni, halftones da tabarau sun kasance a kan sidelines. Me ya sa ba zai iya kishi ba ja ko blue? A nan a cikin littattafai sau da yawa rubuta: "Ya juya rawaya tare da kishi" kuma "ya juya kore tare da fushi" - wannan, a cikin ra'ayi, kawai na'urar fasaha?
Duk motsin zuciyarmu shine launuka masu haske, wanda rayuwarmu ta kunshi kuma kada mu dubi abubuwa ta amfani da tsarin "black and white". Yana da damuwa da m.
Ƙirƙiri ƙaƙƙarfan zuciyarka na kishi. Alal misali, idan kuna son zina "da fararen fata" - karba shi a matsayin amincewa, yabo, kuma zaka iya jin kamar manufa don kwaikwayo ko da na biyu (amma ba haka ba). Rauni na Red zai iya zama abin takaici ga nasara da kuma gagarumar nasara, nasara da kuma neman sababbin kololuwa. Yellow - a akasin haka, zai bayyana a fili cewa tare da duk nasarar da sa'a a wani wuri da kake kuskuren kuskure - a wasu hanyoyi irin wannan kishi. Kowannenmu yana ganin irin wannan yanayi daban, mutane masu ji da kuma nuna halayen su.
Ga wasu mutane shi ne kishi da ke kaiwa ga cigaba na ci gaba. Suna da sababbin burin, burin da kuma bukatu. Mafi yawan rashin tausayi - matsakaicin ayyukan - matsakaicin nasarar. Kamar yadda suke cewa, "Na ga burin - ban ga wani matsala ba."
Hakazalika, kishi zai iya cinye mutum, ba zai iya yin farin ciki da nasarar mai makwabcinsa ba, abin da yake fada, har ma aboki mafi kyau. "Toad" kamar dai zai bar guba wanda zai hallaka rai, ya shafe jiki duka, ya hana zaman lafiya da yanayi.
"Don kishi yana da kyau, amma idan babu abin kishi - har ma mafi muni . " Rayuwa don babu lokacin da makamashi don kishin mutum, yi duk abinda ke cikin ikon yin kishi.