A cikin rayuwar kowa, motsin zuciyarmu da jin dadin taka muhimmiyar rawa. Ta hanyar motsin zuciyar mutum ya nuna halinsa ga rayuwa. A cikin yara, an nuna motsin rai da wadata da yawa fiye da tsofaffi, waɗanda suka san yadda za'a boye su. Ba tare da motsin zuciyarmu ba, rayuwar mutane za ta kasance kamar rayuwar shuka. Yana da mahimmanci kada a bar shi, don samar da ci gaban halayyar yara da kuma samar da ra'ayi na duniya mai yawa.
Halin motsin zuciyar yara
Domin yarinyar ya ci gaba, ba za a rabu da shi daga aikin ba, dole ne ayyukansa su kasance da motsin rai. Kuna iya ganin cewa yaro yayi abin da yake sha'awar. Ƙaddamar da motsin zuciyar kishi daga yanayin sadarwa, daga yanayin, daga haɗin kai, saboda yaro yana fata ku shiga cikin ayyukansa. Dole ne a kafa hulɗar tare da jariri, don raba abubuwan da yake so - wannan shine tushen asalin ji.
Yarin yaro yana cikin jinƙan motsin rai, to shiru da kwantar da hankula, sa'an nan kuma yana kururuwa, sa'an nan kuma yana kuka mai zafi, yana nuna damuwa. Masu iyaye suna iya lura cewa a cikin yanayi daban-daban yaro ya nuna bambanci - yana nuna farin ciki a fuskar fuska na mahaifiyata, abin wasa mai ban sha'awa, yana ɗaukar laifi kuma yana rawar jiki a sautin murya mai girma, murmushi ga ƙaunataccen. Kuma mafi ƙarancin tunanin abinda ake nunawa, mafi hankali, da hankali, da farin ciki kuma mafi annashuwa yaron.
Don samun irin waɗannan ji kamar haɗin kai, tausayi, alheri, kana bukatar ka koya masa yadda za ka ji tausayi don wasa - kare, bera, yar tsana, sa'an nan yaron zai iya canja wannan jin dadi ga mutum mai rai ko dabba. Idan iyaye suna da mummunar yanayi, to, yaron zai iya jin daɗin jinin tsofaffi kuma yana iya fara zama mai ban tsoro, kuka, fushi.
Ya yi amfani da misalin mai girma ya koyi yadda za'a bayyana motsin zuciyarsa. Ba lallai ba ne don karewa ko ɓoye abubuwan da kake ji, amma don sarrafa su. Hakika, motsin rai yana sa mutum ya raye. Idan mutum yayi tasowa, to wannan yana haifar da motsin zuciyarmu. Halin motsin zuciyar kirki yana haifar da bayyanar sabon wasa ko bayyanar ƙaunatacce. Da kansu, motsin zuciyarmu ba zai yiwu ba, hanyar maganganu ta canza.
Akwai 10 motsin zuciyarka don gane motsin zuciyar da kake buƙatar sanin halayen su:
- Abin sha'awa: fargaba, kulawa, maida hankali;
- Joy: farin ciki, farin ciki, farin ciki;
- Abin mamaki: mamaki mamaki, mamakin mamaki, mamakin;
- Saduwa: damuwa, bakin ciki, bakin ciki;
- Fushi: rabies, fushi, fushi;
- Tsarina: ƙiyayya, kyama, ƙyama;
- Tsananta: girman kai, girmankai, kangararru;
- Tsoro: tsoro, tsoro, tsoro;
- Shame: kunya, kunya;
- Wine: tausayi, laifi.
Bayyana kafin wannan yaro wannan duniya mai banƙyama, kana buƙatar ba shi ra'ayi na jama'a da na sirri, nagarta da mugunta. Jaddada halin mutum, kamar taimaka wa wani mutum da fahimta, kula da wani mutum mai rauni.
Musamman a lokacin rikicin, tsawon shekaru 3, lokacin da yaron ya yi fushi ga wasu, kishi ga wani yaro a cikin iyali, da sha'awar yin amfani da iyayensu, abubuwan da suka aikata tawaye. A wannan lokaci, halin da yaron ya yi wa mutanen da ke kewaye da shi da halin da yake yi game da kansa ya canza. Muna buƙatar girmamawa da kwanciyar hankali don biyan bukatun yaro da kuma shi, nuna yadda za mu kasance cikin halin da ake ciki. Yana da kyau a yayin da yaron ya sami kwarewa mai yawa, kuma idan ya ɓace gaba ɗaya, kana buƙatar canzawa ɗan jaririn zuwa darasi mai ban sha'awa. Kada ku ƙyale, amma halin kirki za ku iya jawo hankalin yaro don amfani da abubuwan da suka dace. Don taimakawa yaron, don samun sababbin basira da ilmi.
A kowane ci gaba ya zama dole don ci gaba daga bukatun yaron, yayin la'akari da damar da ya dace da shekarunsa da kuma halaye na mutum. Bayan haka kuma an samu nasarar ci gaba ga yaro.