A yau, mata da dama sun bar haihuwarsu kawai don wannan lokacin rayuwarsu. Masana kimiyya sun tabbatar da cewa marigayi da haihuwa da sake haifar da jikin mace. A kan shawarwarin yadda za a yi kyau ga mace ba tare da la'akari da shekarunta ba, mai suna Sophia Loren kawai ake kira kiran haihuwar jariri a shekaru 40. Angelina Jolie da Madonna, taurari na zamaninmu, sun haife 'ya'yansu na farko, tun suna cikin shekaru Balzac.
Saboda haka, haihuwar a lokacin Balzac ta sake haifar da jikin mace.
Farfesa a Amurka, John Mirowski, wanda ya yi aiki a Jami'ar Texas, ya dogon lokaci yayi ƙoƙari ya amsa wannan tambayar - yaushe zai fi kyau ya haifi ɗa na farko? Ya gabatar da hujjojin tabbaci cewa al'ada mafi yawan al'ada na mace ga ciki na farko ba daidai ba ne da ra'ayi da aka dauka daidai a baya. Wannan shekarun, bisa ga farfesa, shekaru 34 ne. Yau a wannan lokacin rayuwa cewa yanayin lafiyar jiki da kwanciyar hankali na mace ya kai wani matsayi, wanda ya sa ya yiwu ya dauki irin wannan matakin da ya dace.
Hakika, a kasashen Yammaci, inda ba a gayyaci juna da wuri marar ciki ba, kuma mata suna da matukar farin ciki game da wannan sanarwa. Domin mata na karni na 21 sun dade da yawa ba su daina dogara ga wani jinsi na kare lafiyar su, sabili da haka sun fara tunani game da aiki, gidaje su, kuma, a ƙarshe amma ba kadan ba, na iyali. Har ila yau akwai lokuta idan mace bayan shekaru 30 ta sami abokin tarayya mai kyau, lokaci mafi dacewa don tunani game da yaro. Sabili da haka ba abin farin ciki ba ne don gane cewa shekaru da yawa na zama mahaifiya an bar su a baya. Saboda haka, bai yi latti ba don haihuwa.
Hakika, wannan ka'idar tana da masu adawa da yawa. Amma idan kayi tunani game da shi, tsarawar haihuwa na yau da kullum da yaron na farko bai zama na kowa fiye da daidaituwa ba wanda ya shafi wannan taron. Saboda haka, kowane lissafin lokacin da za a haihu da yaro na farko shine kawai daliban masu bincike, maimakon 'yan ƙasa. Ƙarshe, wanda za a iya yi tare da amincewa: ba a daɗewa ba don haihuwa, idan akwai wannan sha'awar mata da dama.
An gudanar da bincike game da Rasha da kashi 61 cikin 100 na wakilan maza da suka haifa shekaru 19 zuwa 24 a matsayin mafi kyawun haihuwar jaririn farko. Babban mahimmanci na wannan zamani, maza suna la'akari da kyakkyawan yanayin jiki da lafiyar mace. Suna jayayya da wannan kamar haka: "Mazan tsofaffiyar mace, mafi girma da yiwuwar dukkanin cututtuka, da yiwuwar samun sababbin cututtuka, tsofaffin cututtuka sun zama mai ci gaba, kuma wannan yana da mummunar tasiri akan tayin. Kodayake, an tabbatar da cewa 'ya'yan marigayi sun fi kwarewa kuma suna da basira fiye da yara. "
Mata suna cikin yarjejeniya da su - 49%, wadanda suka yi imanin cewa "wannan shine mafi kyau duka shekarun - kuma ba a farkon ko latti ba, tun lokacin da jiki ya cika da kuma shirye don haihuwar jaririn," "kafin da kuka haifi, mafi yawan za ku iya ceton matasa."
"Wajibi ne a haifi haihuwa lokacin da matar ta sami dama don shirya rayuwar da ya dace da yaron," in ji 37% na masu hira da suka yi la'akari da shekarun 25-30 don su dace da haihuwar haihuwar. Yawancin shekarun nan ne sanin wayar da kan dukan nauyin haihuwar haihuwa da tasowa yaro. Tun lokacin da matar ta rigaya ta kasance a wannan zamani a matsayin mutum, ta sami ilimi mafi girma, wanda ke nufin cewa tana iya samar da yaro tare da kwanciyar hankali a nan gaba.
Amma zabin shine ko da yaushe ga mace, domin a cikin babban ciki ya faru ne kawai.
Julia Sobolevskaya , musamman don shafin