Yawancin mata a kalla sau daya sun damu game da wannan tambaya: "Yaya kishi yake nunawa maza?" A bayyane yake tare da mata a nan, ta iya tambayi shi wanda da kuma inda yake, me yasa ya dawo daga baya fiye da lokacin da ya saba, ruhohi, da dai sauransu. Amma a cikin mutane, abin da ya fi dacewa, kishi yana nuna kanta a cikin hanyar. Zai iya yin tambaya, tare da wanda kuma inda kake, kuma idan ya ga cewa kana magana da abokinka, to, zai tambayi tsawon lokacin da ka san shi.
Bayyana kishi a cikin mutane
Idan mai ƙaunar ku ya yanke shawarar zuwa gidan wasan kwaikwayo bayan ya gano cewa kuna tafiya tare da masaniyar ku; idan mutum ya ba ku tayi bayan da kuka fada masa cewa abokin zai kori ku - wadannan su ne alamun farko da ya kishi ku.
Kishiyar namiji tana nuna kanta a hanya ta musamman
Wannan ya shafi mutanen da suka fi so kada suyi aiki kai tsaye, amma don neman hanyoyi, waɗannan maza suna da kyan gani. Da karin kumallo, ya yi magana game da abokiyar ku da kansa kuma yayi tambaya: "Har yaushe kuka san shi?" Wadannan maza suna kunya don nuna cewa suna kishi, amma idan sun ambaci shi sau da yawa a rana, to wannan alama ce ta kishi.
Wani alama na kishi shine aikin mutum naka ga abokinka. A titi ka sadu da abokinka na farko, wanda ba ka gani ba shekaru da yawa. Kuna kama, sumbatar juna da kuma lokacin da kuka fara magana, mai ƙaunarku a can. Ya fara fahimtarwa, yana ƙoƙarin jawo hankalin ku ko zai yi magana ba tare da tsayawa ba, sai kawai abokin ku kuma ba ku magana kawai.
A cikin zamani na zamani, aure bai kamata ya haramta damar yin sadarwa tare da mutane ba. Kodayake dalilin kishi shine zina, wani mutum zai iya kishi da ƙaunatacciyar ƙaunarsa, kwamfuta, aiki da sauransu.
Kishi yana da mahimmanci, wannan sha'awar mallaki da jin tsoron rasa wani ƙaunatacce, yana tare da shakku cikin aminci da ƙauna, rashin jin tsoro da fushi da wulakanci. Dukkan kishin da ke son ku ci gaba da kusa da ku a duk wani abu na wani mutum, da ma'anar mallaki, rashin amana ga abokin tarayya, rashin shakka kai, girman kai.
Sakamakon mummunan kishi
- Kishi yana haifar da mummunar dangantaka tsakanin abokan hulɗa. Rashin baƙin ciki, abin kunya, murmushi, jayayya, zargi da zullumi sunyi rayuwa tare ba tare da jurewa ba.
- Zatocin zullumi da zalunci a cikin cin amana na iya haifar da canjin gaske. Irin wannan cin amana ana kiransa "duk".
- Kishi kai irin wannan ƙarfin cewa ya zama obtrusive. Kishi na kishi yana nuna kansa a cikin wadanda ake zaton cin zarafi ko kuma a cikin ayyukan da aka yi wa abokin tarayya.
- Harkokin kishi na waje suna da mummunar tasiri akan lafiyar yara. Kuma iyaye suna ƙoƙari don warkar da yaron an tilasta su haɗu da juna domin lokaci.
- Karfin kishi yana da mummunan tasirin lafiyarsu. Mutane masu kishi suna shan wahala daga rashin barci, ƙwayoyin su suna haifar da raunuka ko damuwa, suna da matsala tare da hanji, fama da ciwon kai.
- Saboda abubuwan da suka faru, aikin ƙwaƙwalwar ajiya wanda ke da alhakin ƙaddamar da ƙwayar cuta yana rushewa, wanda zai haifar da gagarumar riba. Tsarin tsarin rigakafi yana wahala kuma eczema iya farawa.
Ka yi kokarin yada kishi tare da irin wannan fasaha
Nemi dalilin idan abokinka ya yi shakkar amincinka, kuma wannan kishi ya zama al'ada. Gabatar da mijinki ga abokansa na jima'i, yin abokantaka da su, zai fahimci cewa babu wani abu da ke barazana ga farin ciki. Yana da muhimmanci a tabbatar da amincewa, aminci da kwanciyar hankali a cikin dangantakarka. Kada ku ba da dalilai na kishi, kada ku damu da kishi. Ya tilasta wani lokaci don kishi ga abokin tarayya, kana bukatar ka tuna cewa jin dadin wasu mutane da kuma naka suna da kyau. Suna buƙatar lokaci don braking da kuma swinging. Play tare da kishi, kada ku yi wasa. Babban abu a cikin wannan kasuwancin ba shine zuwa nesa sosai ba. Kada ka manta cewa mutum yana bukatar ya ba da tunaninsa, kula da hankali. Kuna iya cewa gishiri ƙauna shine kishi. Kuma idan matsala ta fara, akwai mai yawa gishiri, sa'annan ƙauna ta zama abin ƙyama.