Hanyoyin da ke tsakanin ma'auratan duk wani nau'i ne na rayuwar auren rai da farin ciki. An sani cewa a karo na farko Helenawa na farko sun fara yin amfani da caresses na kwakwalwa, kamar yadda aka nuna ta hanyar zane-zane, waɗanda masu binciken ilmin kimiyya suka gano akan ganuwar. Duk da haka, a ko'ina cikin duniya, jima'i jima'i an fi sani da ƙaunar Faransanci. Labaran yau suna nuna cewa fiye da kashi 50 cikin dari na ma'aurata a Faransa fiye da sau ɗaya a mako sukan kulla kawunansu tare da bakinsu.
Harkokin jima'i sun canza a cikin ƙarni. Idan mutanen zamanin d ¯ a sun ji daɗin jin dadin jiki kamar halitta ne, to, a lokacin da ake kallon jima'i an yi la'akari da abin da aka haramta da kuma abin kunya, an yi la'akari da ma'auratan 'yan aure kawai a matsayin hanyar samar da yara.
A zamaninmu, yawancin maza da mata ba su wakiltar rayuwarsu ba tare da ƙaunar Faransa ba. Dukansu launi da harshe ba su san masu yin gwagwarmayar ba ta hanyar fahimtar su, kuma saboda haka zasu iya ba da abokin tarayya sha'awar sha'awa da dama.
Da yawa ma'aurata, watakila, suna so su gwada caresses, amma sunyi la'akari da wannan aikin da aka lalata sosai kuma ba mai tsabta ba. Domin kawar da dukkan matsalolin da ba dole ba, masu jima'i sun bayar da shawarar cewa kafin suyi jima'i ta hanyar yin jima'i suyi wanka tare. Wajibi ne a yi imani cewa wariyar sassan sassan jiki, dandano jikin kwayoyin halitta na da ban sha'awa. Don haka, ya kamata mutum ya kiyaye tsabtace jiki kuma ya zama lafiya.
Mata da yawa suna jin tsoro cewa ba za su sami damar ceton mutum ba sai dai lebe, suna jin tsoro don yin zafi ko rashin jin daɗi. Duk abin da za ka iya koya, kana buƙatar ka gwada duk wani sabon abu, ka saurari karatunka, ka duba abin da abokin tarayya ke yi. A nau'i-nau'i, jima'i bude juna ga juna, tausayi da fahimta kawai girma tare da shekaru.
Yawancin mata sunce cewa sutura abu ne mai ban sha'awa, rashin jin dadi da cutarwa. Ana iya bayyana shi tare da amincewa cewa wannan ra'ayi ne ga waɗannan matan da ba suyi kokarin gina namiji ba. Babu wani abu mai ban tsoro da zai faru, koda za ka dauki karamin rabo. Babu cutar ga jiki da narkewa zaiyi haka. Amma gaskiyar cewa maniyyi yana da amfani da kayan ado mai kyau wanda ya tabbatar dashi na dogon lokaci.
Yawancin lokaci abokan hamayyar kissan Faransa su ne mata. Amma akwai lokuttan da abokin tarayya yake son irin wannan layin, kuma namiji ya firgita, sai ya fara zarge shi saboda mummunar lalacewar da yanayin. Akwai tambayoyi inda mata ta koyi wannan, kishi maras kyau kuma a sakamakon haka akwai rashin amana. Irin wannan halin da ake ciki zai iya kaucewa idan ka fara fada da sha'awar zuciyarka da kuma shirye-shirye don yin jima'i.
Daga cikin mutane akwai ra'ayi cewa maza suna son daukar nauyin 69 - lokacin da zai yiwu su matsa wa kawunansu. Duk da haka, masu jima'i sunyi iƙirari cewa wannan matsayi ba ya ba ka izinin shakatawa yadda ya kamata, kuma don samun kwari yayin da kissing abokin tarayya ba zai yiwu ba. Amma a matsayin farkon, wannan tsari yana da matukar nasara.
A matsayin bambancin bambancin rashin daidaituwa na zumuntar auren mata, zaka iya gwada yin ƙauna a Faransanci a wurare dabam dabam, misali, a cikin mota, ɗakin gidan gidan cin abinci da aka fi so, a cinema, a kan jirgin ko a wani wuri inda ake sha'awar sha'awar jima'i.