A cikin rayuwa babu wata kalma daya da mutum zai ji sau da yawa fiye da sunan da ya dace. Muryar sunan yana rinjayar duka maigidansa da mutanen kewaye da shi. Wasu sunaye suna da wuya (misali, Anatoly, Dmitry, Ekaterina, Jeanne), wasu a cikin laushi (Natalia, Svetlana, Alexey, Sergey), na uku sun kasance tsaka tsaki (Artem, Roman, Anna, Olga). Wajibi ne a zabi wani suna wanda za'a yi magana da shi kuma ya furta duka biyu da tare da patronymic.
Patronymic fara fara tasiri mutum a lokacin da ya girma. Idan ka zaɓi haɗin suna da haɗin kai daidai, idan sun kasance masu haɗuwa, to, a lokacin balagagge, lokacin da yaronka za a girmama shi da suna da kuma patronymic, ga shi da sauransu, zai kasance kawai kiɗa. Kuma idan mutane da dama suna cikin suna-patronymic, musamman ma a jigon kalmomin, to, pronunciation yana da wuyar gaske, kuma sunan za a gurbata shi sau da yawa.
Amma haɗin sauti bai isa ba. Zaɓin sunan, iyaye sau da yawa sukan yi kuskure - basuyi tunanin yadda sunan da kullin tare tare da tasiri da halayen yaron, karfinsa da damarsa ba. Wajibi ne don nazarin fassarar sunayen da ke la'akari da tasiri na patronymic.
Zai fi kyau a ba da suna mai laushi zuwa ƙarancin ƙarancin, kuma ga masu wuya - taushi.
Lokaci na shekara lokacin da yaronka ya haifa, kuma yana da matsala yayin zabar sunan. Wadanda aka haife su a cikin hunturu, ya fi kyau su ba da sunaye masu laushi da laushi domin su sassaukar da yanayin yanayi, wanda ke cikin yanayi. Wadanda aka haifa a cikin bazara sun fi dacewa, saboda haka ana iya baiwa yaro mai suna. Wannan zai kara musu amincewar kansu da kuma daidaita halin. Yara da aka haifa a lokacin rani suna aiki, ƙarfin zuciya, girman kai, juriya. Wadanda aka haife su a cikin kaka sun kasance masu hakikanin gaske, wadanda basu yarda ba, suna da hankali sosai, hali mai tausayi, suna da matukar muhimmanci, mai hankali.
Ga wasu misalai na sunaye masu dacewa don ranar haihuwa daban-daban.
Disamba: Alexey, Andrei, Artem, Mikhail, Sergey; Vera, Irina, Natalia, Polina.
Janairu: Vasily, Victor, Vladimir, Grigory, Eugene, Ignat, Ilya, Bitrus; Anastasia, Asya, Irina, Lily, Love, Lyudmila, Natalia.
Fabrairu: Alexander, Arkady, Valentin, Vitaly, Georgy, Ivan, Maxim; Alisa, Anna, Asya, Vera, Jeanne, Irina, Milena, Natalia, Rita, Svetlana, Emma.
Maris: Bogdan, Gregory, Pavel, Peter, Taras, Philip, Fedor; Antonina, Ruslan, Rostislav, Serafim, Stanislav, Stella, Sophia.
Afrilu: Cyril, Constantine, Mark; Alexandra, Daria, Karina, Lydia, Maria, Sabina.
Mayu: Anatoly, Herman, David, Cyril, Makar; Alana, Alexandra, Irina, Faina, Julia.
Yuni: Valery, Dmitry, Igor, Constantine, Roman; Elena, Maria, Serafima, Simon, Stanislav, Tamara.
Yuli: Anatoly, Vyacheslav, Georgy, Makar, Nikita; Alexandra, Alla, Antonina, Valeria, Daria, Elizabeth, Kaleria, Lyudmila, Sophia.
Agusta: Alexander, Gleb, Zakhar, Nikolay; Anna, Anfisa, Maria, Margarita, Tamara, Tatiana, Julia.
Satumba: Anatoly, Gennady, Gleb, Denis, Zakhar, Ivan, Myron, Pavel, Roman; Anna, Ariadne, Vera, Elizabeth, Ƙauna, Lyudmila, Hope, Sophia.
Oktoba: Alexander, Vladimir, Vladislav, Herman, Gregory, Cyril, Mark, Mikhail, Nikita, Oleg, Sergey, Philip; Alexander, Vasilisa, Zlata, Olga, Sophia.
Nuwamba: Artem, Bogdan, Valery, Valentine, Victor, Grigory, Constantine, Maxim, Mark, Michael, Philip; Vera, Eugene, Elena, Elizabeth, Efrosinya, Irina, Maria, Natalia.
Wannan, ba shakka, ba cikakken jerin sunayen da ke dace da wani kakar na shekara ba.
Idan sunan da kwanan haihuwar ba su daidaita ba, tasirin sunan a kan rabo zai zama kadan. Akwai ra'ayi cewa sunan ya fara fara tasirin tasirin mutum da shekaru biyar da rai. Kuma idan rabo ya dogara da sashi a kan sunan, yana da kyau in iya iya kiran yara da kyau.
Mataki na gaba shine a zabi wani suna ta darajar, zai bada ra'ayi game da irin nauyin da ake jiran yaro, idan kun kira shi wata hanya ko wata.
Yadda za a zabi sunan jariri mai kyau? Don zaɓar sunaye ga iyaye mafi alheri, ba tare da shiga cikin yawan abokai da dangi ba, domin wannan zai rikita maka kawai kuma zai kore ka daga sunan da ake bukata. Bugu da ƙari, yawancin iyaye ba sa son sauran zaɓin mutane.
Na farko, yanke shawara wacce sunaye ba a la'akari da su ba saboda wata dalili ko wani (alal misali, sunayen mutanen da ke tsayar da tunani da motsin zuciyarmu), sa'an nan kuma sanya karamin jerin sunayen da kake son, kuma daga wannan, ginawa.
Yanzu yana da kyau a kira yara da sunayen sababbin. Kafin bada irin wannan sunan, gano ma'anarsa, ƙi shi, saka shi tare da sakonninka kuma har ma da sunan marubuta, don ganewa idan yana da jituwa.
A wasu lokutan a lokacin baftisma na yaro dan firist ya bada shawarar yin masa baftisma da sunan daban, tk. ba ta samo sunanka a cikin Kirsimeti ba. A cikin wannan babu wani abin damu da damuwa. Tun da farko, yara sunaye sunaye. Wannan sunan, wanda aka yi masa yaron, an kiyaye shi a asirce daga baƙi, kuma an kira sunan na biyu a rayuwa.
Amma abin da bai kamata ka yi shi ne ba da suna zuwa ga yaro don girmama wani taron ko kwanan wata, sunan da ba'a samuwa ba. Sunaye ba sau da yawa bane kuma basu da kyau, zasu iya haifar da mummunan lalacewa da kuma haɓaka rayuwar yaron a nan gaba.
Ya kamata mutum ya yi hankali a lokacin da ya ambaci yaro don girmama dangi, ko da girmama tsofaffi da tsohuwar kakar. Yarinya zai iya maimaita makomar wannan mutum, kuma mummunan gado yana da sauki. Hakanan zai iya haifar da matsananciyar jinsi.
Ba a ba da shawarar ba wa yara sunayen sunayen dangin da suka riga suka mutu, musamman ma wadanda suka mutu bala'i.
Ba lallai ba ne a kira yara don girmama jarrabawar fina-finai, tarbijin telebijin, mutane masu daraja da kuma mutane, musamman ma idan sunan mahaifi da patronymic ya dace.
Kuna iya kiran yara ta ka'idar Kirista - don girmama ɗayan tsarkaka da aka haifa a yau. Idan ba ka son sunayen yau ba, kai sunan mai tsarki wanda aka haifa a daya daga cikin kwanaki masu zuwa, amma ba daga kwanakin baya ba.
Yadda za a yi suna yaro, ka yanke shawara. Amma tuna cewa sunan yana taka muhimmiyar rawa. Bari yaro ya sami suna mai kyau, kuma ya bar shi ya yi farin ciki tare da shi!