Ina son in haifi jariri, amma ba zan iya zama yadda zan rayu ba? Rashin rashin lafiya ba shi da daraja, saboda za ku iya haifar da mahaifiyar jariri.
Mahaifiyar haihuwa: lafiyar yaro
Shekaru tara na jiran, matsaloli masu farin ciki da haɗin ɗakin yara da kuma sayen duk abin da ya kamata don jaririn, da farko kuka na jariri wanda aka haifa ... Ga mafi yawan ma'aurata, haihuwar yaron shine al'ada, yanayin da aka tsara ta yanayi. Duk da haka, ba kowa ba ne mai farin cikin samun kwarewar iyaye da kuma iyaye da kuma dalilin wannan rashin haihuwa ne.
Domin sake mafarkin da za a danna dumi, irin wannan ƙwayar madara mai yalwa da ƙanshi ga ƙirjin, ma'aurata marasa amfani suna shirye don wani abu. Kuma lokacin da shekaru na likita, maganin gargajiya, rikice-rikice da kuma dogon watanni a sanatoriums ba su aiki ba, akwai bege na ƙarshe - iyaye masu girma.
Zabi uwar mahaifiyar
Bari mu bar tunani game da halin kirki da halin kirki game da batun haihuwa, kuma za muyi zurfi a cikin tsarin kanta, wato: abin da ya kamata a la'akari da lokacin da za a zabi mahaifiyar mahaifa, domin wannan zabi zai ƙayyade lafiyar ɗan jaririn nan gaba - jariri.
Abu na farko da ya kamata ka kula da shine shekarun mahaifiyar mahaifa. A matsayinka na mai mulki, mace, wanda kwayar da yaron yaron yaron ya yi girma, bai kamata yayi shekaru 35-37 ba. Hakika, akwai wasu (muna magana ne game da yaye 'ya'yan ta dangin), amma, duk da haka, ba lallai ba ne ya wuce iyakar shekaru masu bada shawarar da likitoci suka dauka.
Na biyu - mahaifiyar mahaifiyar ta yi cikakken bincike. Sai kawai lafiyar rashin lafiya (ciki har da kiwon lafiya na tunanin mutum) na iya tabbatar da lafiyar ɗan yaro.
Na uku, mace wanda ke ba da hidimomi don yaron yaro dole ne a kalla ɗaya daga cikin 'ya'yanta na lafiya da suka yi ciki a cikin hanyar halitta. Ba sauti bane, amma jaririnka mai kyau ne mai kyan gani irin nauyin mahaifiyar mahaifa.
To, a ƙarshe, na ƙarshe, mahaifiyar mahaifiya ta zama cikakkiyar mutum, don kauce wa fitowar yanayi, ba tare da lokacin haihuwa da kuma lokacin bayyanar jariri ba.
Yanayi don yayinda jariri ya haifi yaro
Idan akwai nasarar haɗuwa, to lallai ya zama dole don ƙirƙirar dukkan yanayi masu dacewa (tattauna su a gaba) don nuna lafiyar jariri. Wannan yana da mahimmanci a lokuta idan yazo da jima'i masu juna biyu ko ma uku, wanda yakan faru a lokuta na kwari.
Mace da ta haifi ɗa na ma'aurata ba tare da ɗaraba ba dole ne a zauna a cikin dakin da yake dadi, tabbas zai jagoranci rayuwa mai kyau, bi duk shawarwarin likita, ziyarci shawarwari na mata a lokaci mai dacewa, ci abinci, yin wasanni na musamman (gymnastics for pregnant women).
Iyaye masu zuwa na kullum suna nuna sha'awar yin la'akari da yadda ake ciki, sauraron yarinya na farko na jaririn, jin jijiyarsa a cikin mahaifa. Yana da muhimmanci cewa irin waɗannan tarurruka na iyayen kirki suna faruwa ne a cikin yanayi na sada zumunta, la'akari da yadda yanayin ya kasance. Mutum ba zai iya watsi da gaskiyar cewa, ko da yake gaskiyar cewa mahaifiyar ba ta kula da danta ba kuma yana ƙoƙari kada ya haɗa ta, muddin ta ɗauka a ƙarƙashin zuciyarsu ɗaya ne. Matsalar tashin hankali da damuwa na iya haifar da sakamako mai ma'ana, sabili da haka, idan irin waɗannan tarurruka sun shafi rinjaye na mahaifiyar mahaifa, an bada shawara don rage yawan su don kare lafiyar ɗan da ba a haifa ba.
Don saka idanu kan yanayin mahaifiyar nan gaba, iyayen kirki zasu iya amfani da sabis na, misali, mai kulawa mai kulawa ko likita wanda zai ziyarci mace mai ciki, saka idanu da kwanakinta da kuma daukar ciki, kulawa da kulawa.
Game da abinci da kiwon lafiya, a mafi yawancin lokuta shine kulawa da iyayen da ke gaba. Cikakken abinci mai kyau, 'ya'yan itatuwa da kayan marmari a cikin adadi mai yawa, bitamin da sauransu - duk wannan mahaifiyar mahaifiya ta isa ta isa yawanta, domin a kan gungumen shine abu mafi mahimmanci wanda zai iya zama - lafiyar yaro.
Bayyanar yaro a cikin haske shine ƙaddamarwa
Tsarin haihuwa shine mafi yawan abin da ake jira, duka biyu ga mahaifiyar mahaifa da kuma iyaye. A yau, yana da daraja fara farawa a gaba, ciki har da magana game da shirye-shiryen tunanin mahaifa da mahaifiyar mahaifa. Idan ma'aurata marasa haifuwa haifuwar haihuwar ita ce, duk da damuwa, farin ciki, to, ga mahaifiyar mahaifa da ke tare da yaron yana sau da yawa tare da rashin dacewa.
Yana da mahimmanci cewa idan ya yiwu, an haifi haihuwar ta hanya ta hanyar kasancewa da iyaye masu zuwa. Na farko, yana da kyawawa sosai cewa hannayen farko da jaririn zai ji bayan likitan da ya ɗauki bayarwa shine hannun mahaifiyarsa ko uba. Tsarin iyakar mahaifiyar mahaifiyarta tare da jariri wanda ya bayyana bayan haihuwar zai taimaka wajen shawo kan rikici tsakanin mahaifa da jariri da mahaifiyarsa.
Lokacin da kake yanke shawara a kan iyaye, ka tuna cewa wannan ba ma'amala ba ce, amma rayuwar da lafiyar kananan ƙwayoyin. Wannan ya shafi duka ma'aurata, kuma ga mahaifiyar mahaifa, wanda dole ne ya jure wa ɗayan da yake kula da lafiyar lafiyarsa, da kuma kansa.
Ina son in haifi jariri, amma ba zan iya ba, amma zan zama mahaifi - wannan shine ma'anar mata marasa biyayya.