Harkokin jima'i na da kyau ne kuma na rayuwa na rayuwar mutum, wanda shine horo ga tsarin jiki. Saboda haka, don hana jima'i ba lallai ba ne. Dole ne a tuna da cewa jima'i a rayuwarka ya kasance kamar yadda kake so kuma wannan wata hujja ne da likitoci na wasu wurare daban-daban suke goyan baya.
Matsalar rashin cinikin jima'i na iya shawo kan kowa. Wataƙila wannan shi ne saboda matsalolin rayuwa, matsalolin tunanin da ke tattare da jinsi, matsaloli a aiki, da dai sauransu. Akwai dalilai da yawa, amma abu ɗaya ya tabbata - dogon zubar da jima'i ba zai wuce ba tare da wata alama ga lafiyarka ba. Abstinence na dogon lokaci zai iya haifar da hangen nesa, rashin zalunci da sauran matsaloli na tunanin mutum.
A cikin zamani ta zamani, ba sabawa ne muyi magana game da matsaloli a rayuwar jima'i ba. Mahalarcinku ba za su san matsalolinku ba, kuma kawai za ku iya taimaka wa kanku, idan kun kasance, ba shakka ba abokin gaba ga lafiyar ku.
Dalilin abstinence
Abstinence na biyu: tilasta da son rai. Dukansu iri guda suna wakiltar wannan tsari, a cikin maza da mata, wanda ke haɗuwa da ƙarancin jiki ba tare da cikakke ba da kuma kin amincewa da tunanin da ke tattare da jima'i.
Nan da nan bayan mutumin bai yarda da jima'i ba, yana jin daɗin jin dadi da kuma fahimtar jituwa ta ciki, amma bayan dan lokaci akwai rashin karuwa da jima'i kuma, sakamakon haka, karuwar motsin zuciyar kirki.
Abinda ba shi da mahimmanci tare da haɓaka takunkumi shine fahimtar mutum cewa a wannan yanayin babu wani abu da za'a iya canzawa kuma ba zai yiwu ba. Wannan yana taimaka wa mutum tunani a cikin tsari da kuma ceton daga ɓacin rai da sauran cututtuka na zuciya.
Abstinence na son rai shine tashin hankali ga jiki. Gaskiyar ita ce jiki a kai a kai tana haifar da hormones, iri a wani adadi, amma waɗannan samfurori ba a amfani da su a jiki. Bayan dan lokaci, jigon da suka tara a cikin kwayar zai fara canza shi a karkashin sabon yanayi.
Jikinmu bai fahimci ma'anar jima'i ba. A wannan batun, ya fara yakar matsalar. Mutum na iya zama mutum mai tsabta, lokacin da za a rarrabe tunaninsa zuwa kashi biyu, kowannensu zai kare hakkinsa. Wataƙila, ba lallai ba ne a bayyana cewa a cikin wannan hali, rayuwarka za ta ci gaba ta hanyar da ta fi dacewa da yadda za ka so da kuma sakamakon sakamakon ƙin yarda da jima'i ba zai yiwu ba.
Bayani na masana kimiyya
Rahotan masana kimiyya game da kin amincewa da jima'i sun rarrabu. Wasu sun gaskata cewa wannan yana da amfani sosai, tun da yake, a cikin ra'ayi, akwai wadatar albarkatu a cikin jiki. Sauran sunyi imanin cewa wannan mummunan abu ne, saboda haukacin jima'i yana da mummunar tasiri a kan lafiyar jiki da kuma tunanin mutum.
Yaya za a bambanta ci gaba da hutu a cikin jima'i? Alal misali, wasu mutane suna da wuyar rayuwa a cikin dare ba tare da jima'i ba, kuma wasu sau ɗaya kawai a mako. Maganin zamani ba zai iya ba da amsa mai ban mamaki ba game da tambaya na tsawon lokacin abstinence ya kamata ya kasance, saboda haka an dauka tsawon lokaci ne. Bugu da ƙari, babu wata ra'ayi ɗaya game da abin da ke haifar da abstinence jima'i na wasu watanni ko shekaru. Don sanin bambancin tsakanin abstinence da wucin gadi na wucin gadi yana da wahala, saboda ya dogara ne akan matakin jima'i (libido). Wasu mutane suna da wannan matakin ƙananan, yayin da wasu suna da matakan da suka fi girma.
Abstinence yana da muhimmiyar mahimmanci ga maza da ke fama da cutar prostate, abin da yake tabbatar da gaskiyar likita. Ana iya warkar da ƙwayar cuta tare da maganin rigakafin kwayoyi da damuwa. Doctors sun tabbatar da cewa cinyewa abu ne mai tasiri wajen kula da prostatitis, tun lokacin da aka hana prostate kullum.
A cikin rayuwar kowane mace akwai lokutan rashin jima'i, amma ba kamar maza ba, ga mata, abstinence jima'i ya fi hatsari. Wasu mata suna ƙoƙari su matsa hankalin su ga wasu abubuwa, wasu kuma su shiga al'aura. A wannan yanayin, idan yarinyar ta kasance a cikin fannin rayuwa, ba tare da jima'i ba, to, hakan zai haifar da canji na gyaran jiki.
Jikin jikin mutum a jihar kanta ya ƙayyade abin da ake buƙata a gare shi a wani lokaci ko kuma kuma idan yana dauka mai yawa albarkatun kan hanyar magance cutar, to, babu wani jima'i a wannan lokacin. Amma idan akwai damar da sha'awar yin jima'i, watsi da rikice-rikice, watakila, zai yi mummunar cutar. Abstinence jima'i ya ƙunshi canza halin mutum kuma a wannan yanayin ba shi yiwuwa a yi magana game da kowane irin halin da ake ciki.
Sakamako a sama
- Tsarin jima'i na maza ba aikin ceton albarkatun ba ne kuma tarawar halayyar jima'i, rashin tsarinsu cikin hakora. Da zarar jiki bai hada da libido ba sannan kuma za a sami rashin ƙarfi.
- Idan ka katse aikin na dan lokaci kaɗan, to, kwarewar yin jima'i tare da abokin tarayya ba kawai ya zama tsofaffi ba, amma har ma ya ɓace. Abstinence ya sace tunanin mutum da kuma lafiyar jiki.
- Kowane mutum na da matsayi na bukatar jima'i. Saboda haka, ya kamata mutum yayi jima'i kamar yadda yake so. Idan akwai yiwuwar da sha'awar yin jima'i, to, kada kuyi musun kanka a ciki.
- Abstinence jima'i na iya zama haɗari ga lafiyar mutane tare da wasu cututtuka. Sabanin haka, haɓaka abu ne mai kyau a cikin maganin prostatitis.