Ciyar da damuwa.
Ƙauna ko ma sauƙi mai sauƙi yana taimaka mana mu yi yaƙi da ƙananan motsin zuciyarmu da kuma taimakawa tashin hankali. A aiki, kamar yadda a cikin rayuwarka, abubuwa sunyi banbanci - to, muna da farin ciki cewa duk abin da ke da kyau, sa'an nan kuma ka yanke ƙauna, cewa komai ba daidai ba ne. Ra'ayin sadarwar sabis shine sauƙin haɗakar dangantaka a cikin ƙungiyar, rashin jin daɗi tare da albashi ko kuma bukatar yin shawara mai banƙyama. Bukatun da yawa ba sa tafasa a inda duk abin da yake kwantar da hankula da kuma iya gani. Wani littafi na sabis shine wani sabon abu a cikin matasa matasa da kuma kamfanoni masu tasowa.
An yi imanin cewa dangantaka a wurin aiki an fara ne kawai daga masu girma, amma wannan ba haka bane. A karkashin rinjayar danniya, mutum yayi ƙoƙarin ramawa don rashin jin daɗi, musamman idan ba zai iya shafar halin da ake ciki ba. Sabili da haka, soyayya na iya saduwa da shugaba tare da sakatare, kuma mai sarrafa tare da mai bada lissafin, kuma mai kula da mai jiran.
Ƙaunar da ke aiki na iya ɗan lokaci don taimakawa danniya, amma kusan ma wannan lokaci a kan lokaci yana ƙara matsala, musamman ma idan dangantaka ta kasance ga kowa da kowa kuma idan wani daga ma'aurata ba gaskiya ba ne. Wannan shi ne yadda aka nuna "lallausan lilin" don dubawa na jama'a.
Domin sake yin aiki.
Harkokin zumunci don aiki na aiki kuma wani abu ne mai ban mamaki. Musamman sau da yawa wannan hanya ce don cimma karuwar karuwar yara matasa, masu ban sha'awa da kuma marasa fahimta. Matashi da kyau zasu iya taimakawa cikin sha'awar daukar matsayi mafi kyau. Amma, idan al'ada ta fara aiki, waɗannan manyan mutane, a matsayin mulkin, suna koma baya. Musamman ma babban kuskuren matasa ƙwararru shine ƙaddamar da dangantaka tare da mutumin da ya taimaka musu wajen gabatarwa, idan sun cimma manufar su. Mutane da yawa suna tunanin cewa yin magudi ko rikice-rikice na al'ada zai iya kawo duk abin da ya koma ɗaya. Wanda yana da iko ya tada ku, kamar yadda sauƙi zai iya wuta. Sabili da haka, dangantaka don sake yin aiki yana da haɗari.
Master-gentleman.
Daga cikin 'yan mata, akwai almara game da yadda tsofaffi masu daraja suke ƙoƙari don kusanci, suna barazana da aikawa. Don a ce wannan ba ya faru shi ne wauta. Haka kuma akwai irin wannan yanayin da ake tilasta 'yan mata su yarda da ƙaunar romance don kada su rasa aikinsu.
Domin kada ku kasance a cikin wannan matsayi, yana da muhimmanci a san cewa yana da sauƙi don rinjayar masu rauni. Idan kuna da ilimin, idan kun kasance a wurinku, idan aikin ya kamata a yi, to, a lokacin za ku zama mashawarcin gwani, wanda aka rasa wanda mai aiki zai rasa maimakon cin nasara. Saboda haka, sana'a shine kawai abinda zai iya kare a karkashin irin wannan yanayi.
Don ƙauna.
Amma kuma yana faruwa cewa a aikin akwai mutane biyu waɗanda aka halicce su ne kawai don juna. Masanan ilimin kimiyya sun bada shawarar kada su daina kyautar kyauta, amma kokarin kokarin fassara fasalin romance a cikin wani hali daban. Alal misali, ɗayan masoya na iya neman aikin a wasu wurare idan ya shirya dangantaka mai tsanani. Har ila yau wannan wajibi ne saboda yana da wahala ga mutane su kula da kyakkyawan dangantaka, kasancewa a kusa da agogo kusa da agogo. Wannan babu shakka zai haifar da gaskiyar cewa mutane suna rawar jiki da juna, fara canja matsalolin aikin aiki ga iyali, da kuma iyalai - don aiki. Matsayi mai ban mamaki shi ne cewa wani ya ƙi yin aiki, kawai saboda gidan yana da rikici. Sabili da haka, don kada ya hadari, ya fi kyau zuwa watsa zuwa kamfanoni daban-daban ko akalla zuwa sassa daban-daban.
Lokaci na yau da kullum yana da wahala. Abune ne, gossip, da buƙatar ɓoye dangantaka da hadarin kasancewa a cikin matsayi mafi banƙyama idan ƙauna ƙare. Don yanke shawara ko wannan shine zabi na kowa da kowa. Tabbatacce, don barin ƙauna mai girma, kawai saboda ta hadu a aikin, ba zai yiwu ba. Daga kowane matsayi akwai sauƙaƙan hanya, kuma hankali na yau zai taimaka wajen samo shi, duk da tsananin karfi.