Mutane da yawa suna mafarki game da haihuwar yaro. Ba da daɗewa ba, mace mai ƙauna ta shiga wannan mafarki domin ya faranta wa mijinta farin ciki kuma ya haɗa iyalinsa har ma, ta biya dukan hankali ga batun yadda za a yi shirin ɗaukar ciki tare da yaron a gaba. Akwai ra'ayi cewa har yanzu zaka iya "tsara" yanayin yanayin yaron. Saboda haka, ina ba ku shawarar hanyoyi na tsara daukar ciki da yaro.
Musamman abinci.
Don inganta yarinyar da yaron ya kasance, dole ne ya mamaye yatsan sodium da potassium, yayin da ya rage magnesium da katako. Saboda wannan, an bada shawara a fi son kifi, naman, namomin kaza zuwa dankali, da wake wake mai bushe, Peas dried, lebur, duk wake a lokacin cin abinci, kawai furotin za'a iya cinye daga kwai. Game da 'ya'yan itatuwa, ba da fifiko ga apricots, peaches, prunes, cherries, da dried' ya'yan itatuwa - dried apricots da kwanakin. An yarda ya sha shayi, 'ya'yan itace mai' ya'yan itace, giya, soda ruwan ma'adinai. Saboda haka mace da ke kokarin shirya ciki tare da yaron zai zama bishiyoyi masu amfani, kukis, shinkafa, semolina, da yisti da kuma abincin gwangwani. Dole ne gishiri duk abinci kamar yadda ya yiwu.
Ka yi ƙoƙari ka ware daga abinci mai ma'adinai na abinci tare da allura, duk kayan da za a iya kiwo, caviar, crabs, shrimps, pastries, a gwajin abin da akwai qwai, kayan ado a cikin madara, pancakes, gurasa, wafers. Haka kuma ya kamata ya guji koren wake, salatin salatin, kyawawan dan kabeji, Dill, kore wake, ruwa, hazelnut, walnuts, almonds, kirki, madara cakulan da koko. Ya kamata a biyan abinci daga farkon karuwar jima'i da kuma tunanin da ake tsammani.
A hakika, tabbacin samun ciki na 100% ba har yanzu ba ne, amma bisa ga kididdiga wannan kimanin kashi 82% ne. Har zuwa yau, babu cikakken bayanin kimiyya na wannan dabara. Ko da yake an ɗauka cewa ayyukan endocrine na jikin mace, da ma'auni na hormonal, suna ƙarƙashin canji, duk wannan yana rinjayar jinsin jima'i. Babu abin da zai iya ganewa kawai cewa cin abinci na dan lokaci a cikin shirin yarinyar da yaron ya yi ba zai haifar da wata mummunar cutar ga mahaifiyar gaba ba. Bayan zane, mace zata iya, tana da duk abin da yake so (kuma yana da amfani ga tayin).
Tsawancen shawarar da aka yi da jima'i don yarinya yaro.
Wannan hanya ta dogara ne akan gaskiyar cewa "namiji" spermatozoa sau da yawa ya fi girma kuma suna da sauki, ko da yake rayuwar waɗannan spermatozoa ba shi da ƙasa. Kuma "mace" spermatozoons - akasin haka. Saboda haka, idan kuka yanke shawarar shirya ciki yayin yaro, ya kamata ku yi jima'i a duk lokacin da zai yiwu. Don haka tare da zaman jima'i, a kan iyakar abin da mutum zai iya yi - a cikin halayen akwai "mace" da kuma "namiji" spermatozoa a cikin halayen da ya dace, amma ɗayan ya dauki hannun dama saboda motsi da kuma yawan lambobi.
A cikin yanayin rashin jima'i, ƙaddamar da spermatozoa na "mace" yana ƙaruwa sosai, ƙarfin haɓakawarsu yana taka muhimmiyar rawa a nan.
Wannan hanya, don shirya yarinyar da yarinya ya yi ciki, yana ɗauke da garantin 70-80%.
A ko da - maras shekaru a cikin shekaru.
Nazarin daya daga cikin wakilan magungunan magani mai suna Elena Shavrina ya nuna cewa jima'i na yaro zai iya dogara ne akan shekarun mahaifiyarsa. Don haka, a cikin ra'ayi, zai yiwu a haifi ɗa a cikin shekarun rayuwar mata har tsawon watanni: Maris, Yuli, May, Janairu, Satumba, Nuwamba. A cikin shekaru masu yawa na rayuwa, zai yiwu ya haifi ɗa a cikin Fabrairu, Nuwamba, Yuni, Oktoba, Agusta da Fabrairu. Lokacin da yarinyar ta kasance cikin ciki, kullun da ba a yarda da shi ba daidai ba ne. Wannan hanya kuma ba ta da tasiri 100%, yana da tasiri idan mace tana aiki a tsakiyar wata kalanda.
Hanyar sabuntawar jini.
Wannan hanya ba za a iya kiran shi na gargajiya ba, duk da haka ana amfani dashi akai-akai don shirya yarinya a gaba da yaro.
Da farko, ya wajaba a lissafta shekarun iyaye biyu zuwa daidaito na rana. A mataki na gaba, shekarun mahaifiyar ta raba ta uku, kuma mahaifin hudu. Abubuwan da aka samu na sihiri sun nuna yadda sau da yawa jini aka sabunta a cikin jikin mutum - kowace shekara hudu a cikin maza, da kowace shekara uku a cikin mata. Tare da wannan, dole ne muyi la'akari da lokuta na asarar hasara na jini - tiyata, jinin jini, haihuwa. Ya kamata a kwatanta nau'i-nau'i masu yawa da yawa, jima'i na jaririn da ke gaba zai gano shi da jima'i na iyaye wanda yake da babban nau'in biorhythmical (kuma daidai da haka, wanda jini yake "sabon"). Babu wata mahimmanci mahimmanci, idan mahaifiyar tana da nau'in Rh factor, to, duk abin da kishiyar yake, tare da ragowar ƙasa. Yawancin lokaci zane-zane yana da kashi mai kyau daga 68% zuwa 98%.
Wasu ma'aurata suna kokarin shirya jima'i na yaro tare da wani matsayi yayin aikin jima'i. Saboda haka, domin tsara shirin daukar ciki a matsayin yaro, an fi dacewa matsayi mafi kyau a matsayin "mutum daga baya".
Duk wani hanyoyin da aka gabatar, ba zai iya ba ku garantin 100% ba. Amma abu mafi mahimmanci: ma'aurata na bukatar taimakon junansu kuma suna jin daɗi daga zumunci. Sai kawai tare da halin kirki tsakanin iyayen da ke gaba, za ku iya "dabi'a" yanayi kuma ku jira jiran haihuwar ɗan ƙaramin ɗamara.
Ka tuna cewa bayan zanewa game da yaro, ba zai yiwu a canza jima'i ba. Masanan ilimin kimiyya sun ba da shawara ga ma'aurata su manta sosai game da ra'ayin jima'i. In ba haka ba, jaririn, ko da kafin haihuwa, zai ji maras so.
Idan batun batun haihuwar dan yaro ya yi muni, kuma ana kulawa da shi sosai, ya fi kyau a gare ka ka watsar da ra'ayin shirin. Lalle ne, a game da haihuwar yarinya, iyaye za su iya zama abin kunya, kuma yaron ba zai sami kulawa mai kyau ba.
Amma duk da haka, idan yaranka ya yi maraba - wannan hakika babbar farin ciki ne, kuma ba zai iya ba, ya dogara da jima'i na jariri.