Babban taron mai girma, wanda ake kira bikin aure, ya yi alkawalin da yaushe ya kasance mai haske da cikakke. Bisa ga ɗaya daga cikin al'adun Turai akwai wani karamin karamin abu - wani "abincin dare" da aka yi wa bikin auren, wanda ya kasance da karuwa sosai ta hanyar mata da maza. Abincin abincin dare shine haɗuwa tsakanin amarya da ango, iyayensu, dangi da kuma abokantaka, don sanin juna kafin zuwan babban taron, bayan haka iyalai biyu da ke da alaka da junansu zasu zama kusa da ƙaunar juna ga aboki. Me kake bukatar sanin ko zaka yanke shawara don amfani da wannan sabuwar al'ada?
- Da farko, lokaci da wuri na abincin dare. Wannan taron ba shi da izini, saboda haka ba lallai ba ne a ciyar da shi a gidan abinci. Kuna iya shirya pikinik, fitar da gari ko barbecue a gida. Mafi kyaun abincin dare kafin bikin aure ya shirya kwanaki kadan kafin bikin aure, domin a cikin ewa, za a yi damuwa da yawa kafin babban hutu.
- Wanene zai shirya wannan abincin dare? Wannan hutu na iya shirya ta iyaye na amarya da ango, dangi ko ma abokai. Duk abin da ya dogara ne da kewayar mutane waɗanda aka gayyata zuwa wannan taron, ko kuma biki ne ga dangi da abokai mafi kusa, ko kuma biki kawai ga dangi, don sanin juna.
- Menene za a yi wa baƙi a bikin cin abincin aure kafin bikin aure? Wannan shi ne mai yiwuwa daya daga cikin muhimman al'amurra. Yayin da wannan shirin ya hada da sulhuntawa, to, zaku iya tunanin wani abu, komai. Alal misali, abokai ko dangi zasu iya shirya gabatar da hotuna tare da taimakon slides na sabuwarwowan nan gaba, nuna hotunan haɗin gwiwa. Matasa suna iya bayanin labarin masaniyarsu, suna furta ƙaunar su, suna ba wa kansu rantsuwõyin kansu. Kuna iya lura da taimakon iyaye a shirya bikin aure kuma ku ba su kananan kyauta. Zaka iya shirya wasanni - wanda ya fi sanin amarya da ango. Kuma zaku iya magana da mutane masu kusa, tattauna abubuwan da ke tsakanin ma'aurata (zai fi dacewa nasara). A kowane hali, ya fi kyau cewa masu shirya wannan abincin dare su yarda da cikakken bayani tare da ku, don kada ku kama.
Alal misali, a wasu ƙasashen Yammacin, an kira wani abincin dare na farko kafin bikin aure, kuma wani lokuta har ma wani biki na gaba.
Yanzu za mu tattauna game da al'adun gargajiya da al'adu a wata rana.
- Amincewa da amarya ta bikin aure shine watakila daya daga cikin al'adun da suka fi kyau da kuma launi na bikin aure. Amarya tana ba da dama ga ɗaya daga cikin 'yan uwanta marasa aure su yi aure a wannan shekarar. Wasu mata masu juna biyu suna jefa wani abu mai kyau bayan bikin aure, wasu sun fi so su yi a lokacin idin, har ma wasu a cikin labule na taron.
- Garter na amarya - wannan hadisin ya bayyana a kwanan nan, wanda yake da kyau a bukukuwan aure. A nan duk abin da ya faru ne kawai kamar yadda aka yi da bouquet, amma a cikin wannan yanayin, ango ya cire garter daga cikin jima'i kuma ya jefa shi ga abokansa marasa aure wanda zai kama, zai yi aure a wannan shekara.
- Home - waɗannan al'adun bikin aure suna dauke da tsohuwar Rasha, saboda an ƙone wuta a zamanin d ¯ a. Yau, muryar amarya da ango, suna iya yin murmushi, ta hanyar canja wurin hadisai, jituwa da kwarewar iyalansu ga matasa. A gaskiya ma, ana yin wannan ta hanyar fitilu.
- Salon farko na bikin aure, da farko kallo, ba kamar yadda al'ada ba ne, yana da alama cewa wannan abu ne kawai na zanga-zanga da kayan wasan kwaikwayo. A gaskiya ma, a cikin rawa na farko na sababbin matan, an nuna dangantakarsu, jituwa da juna tare.
- Wakilin bikin aure, ko kuma ta da launi mai launi, shi ma tsohuwar al'ada ce. Bayan haka, launin launi, kamar yadda ka sani, shine launi na tsarki, jituwa, rashin laifi. A kwanan nan, 'yan mata na zamani suna nazarin al'amuran hadisai da kuma yin gyare-gyare ga wannan al'ada, zabar daban-daban, wani lokacin har ma da launuka masu "ba da bikin aure" daga launin ruwan hoda, kirim, hauren giwa ja ko ma baki (wanda ba shi da ƙasa, amma yana da wurin zama).
Kuma ku tuna, wannan rana ya kamata ya zama abin da ba a iya mantawa da shi ba a rayuwarku kuma yana da wuya a yanke shawarar abin da al'adu da al'adu za su kasance a bikin aurenku, don haka wannan rana ta cika muku kawai tare da jin dadi.