Daya daga cikin abubuwan sha'awa shine "haɗiye". Ga mata, wannan matsayi ba sauki ba ne, amma yana shirye don komai don kare mutun. A wannan matsayi, dole ne ta dogara da hannunta. Wannan matsayi ba kawai jin dadin mutum bane, amma ga mace. Wani mutum ya dauki dukkan aikin da kansa a wannan matsayi da kuma motsi, ya yi tambaya. Tare da irin wannan zartar da shigarwa mai zurfi kuma mai dadi ga mutumin.
Kuma wannan tsari ya jagoranci mace. Mutumin yana zaune a kan gado, matar kuma tana kan gaba da baya gareshi. Mace na iya motsawa sama da ƙasa, yayi motsi tare da kwaskwarima, yana damun kansa da shi. Wata mace a wannan wuri tana rawa.
Wannan matsayi yana nuna cewa mutumin yana jagorancin aikin. Mace na iya zama m a lokaci guda. Ta kwanta a baya, kuma mutumin daga sama yana fadin matar. Wannan yana ba wa memba damar shiga cikin kusurwoyi. Mutum zai iya zaɓar kowane wuri mai dacewa kuma ya sadar da kansa da jin daɗinta.
Wannan matsayi ne mai ban mamaki. Don yin wannan, tsaya a baya na kujera tare da baya ga abokin tarayya kuma ya shiga ku daga baya. Wannan abu ne mai dadi don jima'i jima'i. Babban aiki a cikin wannan matsayi ne aka ba mutumin, shi ke sarrafa tsarin.
Matsayin na gaba yana jagorantar mutum ne kuma tana da dadi gareshi. Don yin wannan, mace ta sanya ƙirjinta a kan gado ko wata gado kuma ta shimfida kafafunta, kuma wani mutum dake bayanta yana riƙe da kwatangwalo ya dauke ta kuma ya shiga ciki. Har ila yau, wani mutum a cikin wannan matsayi zai iya riƙe ka don kafa ɗaya, kuma na biyu zai iya durƙusa a ƙasa.
Amma wannan matsayi yana jagorancin mace. An kira shi "hussar". Don yin wannan, namiji ya kwanta a baya ya kuma sanya ƙafafunsa a kan ƙafar matar, kuma ta yi hankali a kan azzakarin sa, kuma ta ci gaba da daidaitawa, matar tana riƙe hannayensa akan kafadar abokin tarayya, kuma yana kama da kafafu. Mace a cikin wannan matsayi ya kamata ta tada da kuma kara, kuma ta yi motsi.