Jima'i bayan haihuwa: matsaloli

Yi imani, nan da nan, ko kuma daga baya, kowace mace ta ci karo da ita a rayuwarta tare da jima'i. Wannan abstinence za a iya haifar da wasu dalilai. Daga waɗannan dalilai, ya dogara da tsawon lokacin da matar zata dace da jima'i. Masana kimiyya sun tabbatar da cewa bayan haihuwar haihuwar jariri, ana fitar da hormone a cikin jiki, wanda ya rage libido kuma yana da alhakin lactation, kuma ya kamata a kara da cewa bayan haihuwar mace ta dawo da watanni shida bisa ga wasu nau'o'in siffofi na jiki, kuma, a gaskiya, mace a wannan lokacin ba ta da jima'i.

Fara aiki na jima'i bayan abstinence mai tsawo ba haka ba ne mai sauki. Dogon abstinence yana haifar da gaskiyar cewa a lokacin jima'i farko mace tana jin tausayi da rashin tausayi. Bayan ketare kofa a cikin ɗakin gida, rashin jin daɗin halin kirki ya ji, tsoro ya bayyana. Abstinence yana haifar da rikice-rikice na rikice-rikice na ruhaniya da kuma fitowar wani abin da ake kira "gwauruwa mai gwadawa". Mata da irin wannan hadaddun sunyi magana da ƙaunar da abokin tarayya yake so sosai, yayin da yake da wuyar gaske kuma wani lokacin ba zai yiwu ba a cimma burin. A lokacin abstinence, an sake gina jiki kuma waɗannan jikin da ke da alhakin jan hankali jiki fara aiki a mafi ƙasƙanci, yayin da mace bata so jima'i kamar wannan. Yana cikin wannan yanayin don magance wannan matsala zai taimaka wa gwani.

Mace masu ilimin jima'i sun raba mata a matsayin nau'i biyu: a wasu mata, cin abinci na karuwa a lokacin abstinence, yayin da wasu, akasin haka, ya bar barci. Mata, wanda yawancin ciwon hauka suke karuwa, suna da matukar wuya a jima'i, dole ne abokin tarayya ya kasance tare da sabon abu. Wannan ba ma'anar cewa irin waɗannan matan kamar nau'ikan jima'i ba, kawai don cikakken gamsuwa, ana buƙatar bambancin.

Wasu suna danganta jima'i tare da hawa a keke, idan kun san yadda, to, ku tuna, amma daga wannan amincewa ba a haɗa shi ba. A cikin kai nan da nan akwai tambayoyi masu yawa game da fifiko da halayyar jima'i. Kuma yanzu kuyi tunani, to, horo din din dinku na takaddama ya wuce kuma kuna iya shiga cikin duniya na jin dadi na jiki. Don kawar da tashin hankali kafin jima'i bayan dogon hutu, kana buƙatar fahimtar wasu abubuwa:

Shirya jikinka, duba yadda za a yi da sauki.

Idan wannan sabon abokiyar ku ne kuma kafin wannan bai taba yin jima'i ba, kada ku shiga cikin jikinsa ta jiki. Ku ciyar da lokaci tare da shi kuma ku jira har sai sha'awarku ta farka. Idan ba ka so shi ba, to baka da tilasta kanka.

Dakata, zai zama abin da ya kamata. Idan kawunka yana shagaltar da tunani, ba shakka ba za ku ji dadin kowane lissafin ba. Tsayawa tunani mai tsanani.

Kai mace ce, kuma an halicci mata don yin wasa. Kada ku kasance mai laushi kuma ku tambayi abokin tarayya don yin duk tunanin ku na jima'i.

Kasancewa, kada ku ji kunya.

Kula da hankali sosai ga shafukan farko, kada ku yi ƙoƙari don gwada dukan fun a yanzu.

Idan matakan farko don wasu dalili ba zai iya farfado da cin abincin ku ba ko kuma ba a cika ku ba tukuna, ku ɗauki ruwan sha tare da saurayi.

Kuna da tabbaci da kyau a cikin jikinka mace, ba a rubuta a goshinka ba idan akwai jima'i na karshe, kada ka damu.

Idan wannan abokin tarayya ne na yau da kullum, yi hali, kamar yadda ya saba, kada ku yi wasa, amma kuyi abin da hankalinku ya fada muku.

Idan ba za ka iya isa gabar maras kyau ba na dogon lokaci, to, yana da darajar tuntubar gwani.