Yin amfani da nau'o'i daban-daban a cikin jima'i ya fi kyau fahimta kamar yadda ake amfani da shi wajen bunkasa lafiyar jiki da kuma jin tausayi. Bayan haka, menene, idan ba kyakkyawan lafiyar lafiyar ba, yana inganta dangantakar abokantaka? Ka yi la'akari da amfani da wasu nau'o'i masu yawa a cikin dangantaka mai kyau.
Yaya matsalolin jima'i zasu shafi lafiyar jiki?
Hanyoyin motsa jiki yana da tasiri sosai akan wasu tsokoki. Ta hanyar motsawa tsokoki, ana motsa capillaries da shinge a lokaci daya, sun zama na roba, jini kuma yana yada su da rayayye.Kowace jikin jikinmu yana karɓar makamashi kamar yadda ya cancanta. Na gode da jinin jini (wadannan su ne jikin jiki na jikin jan jiki), ƙwayoyin jikin mutum sun sami isasshen iskar oxygen, adadin mafi kyau na carbon dioxide ana kaiwa ga huhu, wannan yana taimakawa wajen rabuwa da oxygen daga hemoglobin, kuma lokacin da metabolism ya zama na al'ada, kowacce jikin mutum yana karɓar amfani.
Abubuwan da ke cikin jikinmu suna aiki, saboda haka ana yin rigakafi. Ruwan (synovial) wanda ke lubricate gidajen abinci yana da tasiri sosai saboda gaskiyar cewa metabolism na al'ada ne, saboda kyakkyawar jinin jini, sassa masu lafiya sunyi amfani da kayan abinci masu yawa, wanda ya zama dole don aiki mai tasiri. Jiki yana aiki lafiya.
Yin amfani da nau'o'i daban-daban a jima'i, jiki yana karɓar kyauta mai yawa a kan yawan ƙwayoyin jiki, a kan dukkan kwayoyin da kuma tsarin. Kuma wannan yana da mahimmanci, saboda akwai tsokoki, wanda a cikin halin da ake ciki ya kasance da wuyar aiki.
Ta yaya zinawar jima'i ke shafar lafiyar jiki?
A koyaushe, lokacin da kake hulɗa tare da ƙaunatacciyar ƙaƙƙarfan motsin zuciyarmu an kunna mana. Kuma idan wannan ya faru na tsawon lokaci, kuma iri-iri na zane-zane na kullum yana taimakawa wajen ƙara yin jima'i, ana zarginmu da yawancin motsin zuciyarmu, wanda ya kasance na dogon lokaci. Tsakanin mutanen da suke ƙaunar juna, kowane irin shingen ya ɓace, jiki da kuma tunaninsa, duk da yanayi daban-daban, abokan tarayya sukan ɗauki juna ba tare da yarjejeniya ba. Yin jima'i a cikin lokuta masu yawa shine hanyar sulhu, ba saboda akwai wani abin da ya dace da makamashi ba, amma saboda akwai haɗin makamashi. Ta hanyar kanta, hulɗar dabarar ta warke.
Jima'i yana taimaka wa abokan tarayya don fahimtar muhimmancin kula da juna. Kuma gwaje-gwaje tare da wasu wurare daban-daban da ke haifar da jima'i ya fadada wannan fahimta. Abokan hulɗa suna nuna sha'awar wasu batutuwa. Alal misali, Ina so in ƙaunataccen (a) dan kadan ya haɓaka dangantakar abokantaka, zai dace da shi wannan ko wani matsayi, kamar yadda yake so ya yi abokin tarayya (sha) sexomi, da dai sauransu. Dukkan wannan shine nuna sha'awar juna, ba tare da dangantaka mai tasiri ba ba ya faru. Bayan haka, babu abin da ya tattaro tare da halayyar jiki, ba ta haifar da tunanin mutum ba, a matsayin kulawa.
Mene ne ke haifar da ƙarancin jima'i?
Tsakanin mata jima'i a kanta. A ma'anar cewa idan abokan tarayya ba su da wani marmarin kirkiro jima'i, ba lallai ba ne don ya kauce wa son zuciyarsa ko rashin hankali. Lokacin da ka shiga al'ada na jima'i, don haka yi kungiyoyin kungiya daban-daban kuma suna tuntuɓar juna.
Duk da haka, idan kai da abokinku ba su da tabbacin masu bin doka, to, kuna da dangantaka guda biyu ko biyar kawai, kuma dangantakar ku sau da yawa ya zama abin ƙyama, to, 85% suna da tabbacin cewa yana da kyau a yi wani abu don canji a cikin zumunta, domin akwai matsin lamba .
Gaskiya mai ban sha'awa - a cikin yammacin yamma akwai irin wannan hanyar, lokacin da aka ɗaure mutum da kuma zama a karkashin ruwa mai sauƙin ruwa, wanda sau da yawa ya sa a kan wani batu, bayan wani lokaci wani mutum ya ci gaba da ciwo. Saboda haka a cikin dangantakarmu, idan babu wani abu da ya canza a rayuwar abokan hulɗar, to har yanzu rayuwa ta kasance da kwantar da hankula, ta zauna tare da lokacin da launuka masu launin ya rasa kuma ya zama na yau da kullum.
Idan har yanzu kuna yanke shawara don yin jima'i wani abu, to, kada ku yi gaggawa a ciki. Gwaje-gwaje na farko sun iya damu da sha'awarka, da kuma turawa sau daya da kuma duk hankalinka. Saboda wannan dalili, da farko ku zaɓi matsayin jima'i wanda bai bambanta da gargajiya ba. Alal misali, dan kadan juya zuwa gefe, ƙaramin ƙararrawa, motsawa fiye da ƙwaƙwalwa kuma motsawa cikin hankali don ƙarin lambobi masu tsabta. Gwaji, saboda sau da yawa canza yanayin jima'i, abokin tarayya magasm da yawa fiye.