A zamaninmu, zaku iya jin wannan tambaya - ba hanyar yin katsewa ba ce ga mace? Kuma wannan yana da nisa daga tambaya mara kyau. Maganar katsewa ga mace yana da mahimmanci mahimmanci, saboda muna magana, da farko, game da adana lafiyar mata.
Bari mu zauna a kan waɗannan lokutan da ake kira "cutarwa".
Mun san cewa masana a bangaren jima'i suna ba da shawara a lokacin yin jima'i don yin kwantar da hankali kamar yadda ya kamata, ba tunanin wani abu ba, ba kawai don jin dadi ba, a kan yin farin ciki ga abokin tarayya, da dai sauransu. Yawanci, a lokacin jima'i, dukkanin matakan ilimin lissafi sun faru ne a cikin kullun, a waje da nufinmu. Tsayar da aikin jima'i, muna tsoma baki a tsarin tsarin ilimin lissafin jiki, "rikita shirin" don kwayoyin cutar jiki, akwai canji mai mahimmanci a cikin matakai na motsa jiki da hanawa. Ka yi la'akari da jirgin da yake motsawa a babban gudun, kuma ba zato ba tsammani wani ya latsa tsoma-tsalle ... Abin da ya faru ga fasinjoji a wannan lokacin: damuwa, rikice, tsoro! Kuma har yanzu jirgin yana motsawa na dan lokaci kamar yadda ya kamata. Haka kuma yana faruwa da jikin mutum.
Tunanin lokacin "ban sha'awa" game da yadda za a "ba tashi", mace ba zata iya shakatawa ba, tana jin tsoro, tunani na ciki da ba a so ba ta rufe kanta. Duk wannan yana haifar da mummunan tashin hankali, kuma motsin zuciyar mutum yana rage ikon karuwar jima'i. Wane irin farin ciki a cikin wannan halin da ake ciki zamu iya magana akai? Ma'abota abokin tarayya yana kan tilasta kansa ya kula da lokacin fasalin mutum, wannan kuma yana haifar da rashin jin dadin zuciya, cikar samun yardar rai da jin daɗi, wanda abokan tarayya ke yin gwagwarmaya, an share su.
Kuma har kwanan nan, masana da dama sunyi imanin cewa idan ka saba wa aikin jima'i, to, mace iya ci gaba ƴan sanyi, yiwuwar halayen neurotic yana ƙaruwa.
Idan muka yi la'akari da wannan batu daga hanyar da za a iya cimma burin, to dole ne a ce wannan hanyar kariya daga ciki zai iya haifar da cutar ga mace, kuma watakila, a akasin haka, ba zai sami tasiri ba.
Wane irin mummunan tasiri ne? Wannan ya shafi farko ne ga mata waɗanda basu taɓa yin komai ba. Nazarin ya tabbatar da cewa kashi 50 cikin dari suna amfani da aikin hana katsewa ga mace.
Orgasm a cikin mace ba koyaushe yana faruwa tare da mutum. Idan mace ta sami damar shakatawa, kada ka yi tunani game da tunanin da ba'a so ba kuma idan lokacin da aka samu daga abokan tarayya ya zo a lokuta daban-daban, to, irin wannan canji za su yi ba tare da sakamako mara kyau ba. Amma idan mace kogasm yakan faru ne kawai a lokacin haɗuwa a cikin maza, to, katsewa na ƙauna iya samun mummunar amsawa. Wannan amsawa ana kiranta takaici - rashin jima'i da jima'i ba tare da jimawa ba, wanda ke da zafi a cikin ƙananan ciki. Amma ya kamata a lura cewa irin wannan halayyar abokan tarayya a rayuwarmu ba shi da mahimmanci, wannan yanayin zai iya samuwa ta hanyar ma'aurata masu kyau da suke ƙoƙarin kammalawa da jituwa a rayuwar jima'i. A cikin irin wannan ma'aurata a lokacin ƙauna, mace mai "datti a kai" game da kariya ba za ta kasance ba.
Bari mu tsaya a kan wani lokaci "cutarwa". Ya juya cewa irin wannan jima'i don mace ba panacea ba don ciki ba tare da so ba. An tabbatar da wannan cewa gaskiyar cewa an kafa spermatozoa kuma an kunna lokacin jima'i, kuma ba kawai a ƙarshen shi ba. Saboda haka, yiwuwar daukar ciki ya kai 25%.
Ga mutane, wannan aikin na iya lalata kiwon lafiya, idan an yi amfani da wannan hanya na dogon lokaci, shekaru masu yawa. Lokacin da mutum yayi tsattsauran matsayi kuma ya fitar da wani memba daga farjin, aikin aikin gubar ta prostate ya canza. An rage shi cikakke, saboda haka zai iya haifar da abin mamaki wanda zai haifar da safarar lafiya. Ya kuma iya samun halayen neurotic, rashin aiki a cikin ɓangarorin da ke cikin ciki, ƙaddarar rigakafi, rage yawan gine-gine.
Amma ba duk abin da yake haka inconsolable! Cibiyar maganin rigakafi na yau da kullum ta samar mana da nau'o'in samfurori daban-daban. Yin amfani da su a hankali da kuma dalili, yana da sauƙi don kaucewa sakamakon mummunar sakamako ga lafiyar mata da maza. Idan abokan tarayya suna ƙaunar juna, suna kulawa da kulawa da junansu, to, irin wannan ƙauna ba zai zama bala'i ba. Abokan za su iya amfani da wannan "ƙare" a yayin da babu wani maganin hana haihuwa a hannunsa.
Labule! Fada!